Topic: Do men really like independent women??
hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:52 PM

Deactivated. My work is done here for the evening. Good night allflowerforyou


See ya tomorrow
thanks for everything.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:52 PM

Deactivated. My work is done here for the evening. Good night allflowerforyou


See ya tomorrow


Nite bro drinker

Totage's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:53 PM


I think he's gone now


yeah- the stench is gone, and the air is not frigid anymore.


I had to open a few windows, remember to close them before you go to bed. :tongue:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:53 PM


If what men want is an independent woman then there is no wonder that I am single..Because I am looking..or I WAS looking for a guy that didn't mind if his gf/wife couldn't work..and apparently thats a big thing now.


some guys actually want that..someone told me today that I should act less independent around guys.

I personally can't do it, but it shows that there are some that like their women a little more dependent.

Well..I don't know where those kinds of guys are..cuz every guy I meet asks me WHERE do I work..Not IF I can work..they just assume that just because other women work then I can too.

carolanne58's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:56 PM


Wow,that was interesting!What a nite!Still new to this,So let me see if I got this right........So if you are independent that makes you a dyke?laugh huh laugh laugh


yep.........we are now dykes united.............and iv420 is jealous we look better in a dress than him and he is now trying to seduce our children..........don't you love our new world............LOL

Okay.Like I said before there is no excuse for bad manners.And man this guy takes the cake!!!!

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 09:59 PM



Wow,that was interesting!What a nite!Still new to this,So let me see if I got this right........So if you are independent that makes you a dyke?laugh huh laugh laugh


yep.........we are now dykes united.............and iv420 is jealous we look better in a dress than him and he is now trying to seduce our children..........don't you love our new world............LOL

Okay.Like I said before there is no excuse for bad manners.And man this guy takes the cake!!!!


He went beyond mere bad manners in his vicious attack on everyone in this thread. I have no idea why the moderators did not see fit to stop him but he was just mean and nasty to everyone.

no photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:00 PM
That dude was actually the epitome of what we should be running from and I swear...I did NOT pay him to help me prove my point.

Sorry for all those he insulted. I made the mistake of actually reading his profile and his only match I think would be an inflatable doll.

Good night all...hugs & kisses

carolanne58's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:01 PM


Wow,that was interesting!What a nite!Still new to this,So let me see if I got this right........So if you are independent that makes you a dyke?laugh huh laugh laugh


Apparently, Carolanne. I never even knew I was one until he told me. laugh

So if being independent means your gay I guess everything I said in my profile is bulllaugh laugh laugh huh drinker

Totage's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:01 PM

That dude was actually the epitome of what we should be running from and I swear...I did NOT pay him to help me prove my point.

Sorry for all those he insulted. I made the mistake of actually reading his profile and his only match I think would be an inflatable doll.

Good night all...hugs & kisses



noway I wouldn't treat a blow up doll with such disgrace. noway

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:02 PM

That dude was actually the epitome of what we should be running from and I swear...I did NOT pay him to help me prove my point.

Sorry for all those he insulted. I made the mistake of actually reading his profile and his only match I think would be an inflatable doll.

Good night all...hugs & kisses



Good night. I am really sorry about what happened to your thread. I feel like I was the one who provoked him, and I apologize for that.

Bry395's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:07 PM
This is a great topic, it has puzzled me for some time now. My ex bf liked the fact that I am fairly independent and know how to fix things around my house. Then he got mad and said I was too independent! He told me guys need to feel wanted and needed, I asked why should I bother someone if I am capable of fixing something small myself? I wish I knew what the "happy medium" was.

carolanne58's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:09 PM

I just remodeled my whole house...and the building that my business is in....I have recently demolished a bathroom repaired a water line..replaced everything including durrock....drywalled, sanded, tiled..I do weed eat and I have changed out the serpentine belt in my car a couple times....I also paint....do some electrical work..I live at Lowes...guess Im a dyke too....any females available...flowerforyou I should change my heading to...Im trapped in a self sufficient body....and mind:)

drinker drinker here's to independent womendrinker drinker

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:09 PM

This is a great topic, it has puzzled me for some time now. My ex bf liked the fact that I am fairly independent and know how to fix things around my house. Then he got mad and said I was too independent! He told me guys need to feel wanted and needed, I asked why should I bother someone if I am capable of fixing something small myself? I wish I knew what the "happy medium" was.


I don't think there is one. I just can't bring myself to pretend incompetence so a guy won't have his ego shattered. It's all so unneccesary.

toastedoranges's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:10 PM


This is a great topic, it has puzzled me for some time now. My ex bf liked the fact that I am fairly independent and know how to fix things around my house. Then he got mad and said I was too independent! He told me guys need to feel wanted and needed, I asked why should I bother someone if I am capable of fixing something small myself? I wish I knew what the "happy medium" was.


I don't think there is one. I just can't bring myself to pretend incompetence so a guy won't have his ego shattered. It's all so unneccesary.


WOMAN! GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN!

no photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:11 PM


I just remodeled my whole house...and the building that my business is in....I have recently demolished a bathroom repaired a water line..replaced everything including durrock....drywalled, sanded, tiled..I do weed eat and I have changed out the serpentine belt in my car a couple times....I also paint....do some electrical work..I live at Lowes...guess Im a dyke too....any females available...flowerforyou I should change my heading to...Im trapped in a self sufficient body....and mind:)

drinker drinker here's to independent womendrinker drinker



drinker drinker To you carolannflowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:12 PM



This is a great topic, it has puzzled me for some time now. My ex bf liked the fact that I am fairly independent and know how to fix things around my house. Then he got mad and said I was too independent! He told me guys need to feel wanted and needed, I asked why should I bother someone if I am capable of fixing something small myself? I wish I knew what the "happy medium" was.


I don't think there is one. I just can't bring myself to pretend incompetence so a guy won't have his ego shattered. It's all so unneccesary.


WOMAN! GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN!


No.Make me! I'm bigger than you!

toastedoranges's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:13 PM
Edited by toastedoranges on Wed 04/09/08 10:13 PM
No.Make me! I'm bigger than you!


but...i have the male bits, that makes me more powerful

Bry395's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:14 PM


This is a great topic, it has puzzled me for some time now. My ex bf liked the fact that I am fairly independent and know how to fix things around my house. Then he got mad and said I was too independent! He told me guys need to feel wanted and needed, I asked why should I bother someone if I am capable of fixing something small myself? I wish I knew what the "happy medium" was.


I don't think there is one. I just can't bring myself to pretend incompetence so a guy won't have his ego shattered. It's all so unneccesary.


I agree with you, to me that would be the same as telling a lie.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:16 PM

No.Make me! I'm bigger than you!


but...i have the male bits, that makes me more powerful


I have a chainsaw. That makes me more powerful!

toastedoranges's photo
Wed 04/09/08 10:18 PM
I have a chainsaw. That makes me more powerful!


more powerful than a speeding bullet?

now go! when is dinner?