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Topic: Pregnant mother dating... your thoughts?
Dragonl0ve's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:09 PM
So I want to know what everyone thinks. I recently broke up with my boyfriend (long story short, he ended up being a total loser) welllll.... I am also sixteen weeks pregnant. While right now I am just focusing on that and my five year old child I do wonder, is dating while I am pregnant wrong? Should I be worried that guys will not approach me, or if they do, that they are just after one thing?

Discuss :)

Bornnaked's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:10 PM
Nope not at all.People will think your married.

azrae1l's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:10 PM
i wouldn't date a pregnant girl, a few months after the kid is born cool, but not during.......

Dragonl0ve's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:10 PM
No ring. Never have a guy around.

no photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:12 PM
there is nothing with dating a pregnant girl.... there is also the plus side to it... you dont have to worry about getting her pregnant

Dragonl0ve's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:14 PM
A really good friend of mine met her husband while she was pregnant with her daughter. He ended up being like her father and the little girl still daoesn't know that he isn't.

The real father has never seen her.

no photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:17 PM
all jokes aside.... I dont think ther eis anything wrong wit hdating while you are pregnant... its a personal choice

Winx's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:18 PM
Edited by Winx on Wed 04/09/08 04:19 PM
My cousin dated a pregnant woman. They got married and had another child of their own.



Dragonl0ve's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:20 PM
I don't really think it will be an issue because how often is a pregnant woman even asked out. But curiosity got me thinking about it.

evilolive's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:21 PM
i think right now you should be focused on the kids you have already, not really worried about dating...
in my opinion

Dragonl0ve's photo
Wed 04/09/08 04:24 PM
Like I said earlier, I am just focusing on my daughter and one to come right now. Mostly on my daughter cause she has been an only child for this long and I am nervous how she will adjust to not having me to herself.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Wed 04/09/08 06:36 PM
Hospitals have great sibling programs that you can take your 5 yr old thru which help with the transition.As for pregnant dating ,why not?

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:02 PM
it would be sweet, That is what i think at leastflowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 04/10/08 11:06 PM
My only reservation is that you be very very selective and keep in mind that you are particularly vunerble physically and emotionally and have a strong support group of family and friends to back you up. Keep in mind that homicide is still the leading cause of death for expectsnt Mother's in the USA. It is a frightening statistic but non the less true.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Fri 04/11/08 09:21 AM
Id take this time to focus on YOU & your BABY. Dating should be on the back burner sort of speak. Pregnancy is a time FULL of raging hormones...which could make dating excitinglaugh ....but remember this time should be spent taking care of yourself....and the upcoming birth of your new bundle of joy.

Shaden's photo
Fri 04/11/08 09:59 AM
I agree with, PacificStar.

Best of Luck flowerforyou

elsathebloody's photo
Fri 04/11/08 10:23 AM
Nothing wrong with it.

I don't know how men will react, because I'm not a man. But as long as you and the other guy understand and know everything that's going on and agree to date under those circumstances, then it's all good. ^^

Just make sure to put your baby before everything and anyone happy Though I'm sure you will.

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 04/11/08 10:28 AM
Is that still Elsa's boyfriend posting??? Hmmm....

elsathebloody's photo
Fri 04/11/08 10:36 AM
Edited by elsathebloody on Fri 04/11/08 10:37 AM

Is that still Elsa's boyfriend posting??? Hmmm....


No it's Elsa. He just told me about reading my old post and commenting and it being locked.

I was upset by it too, that's why I left it after I spoke up a few times. But he's different and wanted to stick up for me.
and I feel like it's obvious that it's not, I did say "I'm not a man but.." :tongue:

no photo
Sat 04/12/08 04:12 PM

Is that still Elsa's boyfriend posting??? Hmmm....


Firstly, that's off topic and irrelevant, but no, it was not me.

Secondly, I agree with Elsa. So long as the guy understands the situation, and isn't a total scumbag, I'd say go for it.

I'd also say to make sure you take care of the babies needs as well as your own first and foremost, but I'm sure you will :)

Good luck!

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