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Topic: Do any other women have this problem with men?
chel_c Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 15	Wed 04/09/08 12:58 AM
So I have a rather serious question, and to some it might be stupid. But I’m serious; I have a problem with this. People always ask me… Why are you single? You’re so pretty, blah blah. I always answer, because I hate dating. They ask why, I tell them. It’s because whenever I go out on a date, Men automatically think they’re going to sleep with me. Is this a common thing? Or do I just get the pick of the litter? And for all you who are going to ask the following… No I do not dress like a slut. No I do not make eyes at them like I want them. No I do not go home with them. No I do not kiss on the first date. I do however do the following… Have nice polite conversation. Laugh at their jokes, if they’re funny. Flirt with them, that don’t mean I want to sleep with them. And am nice to them. It’s frustrating! I think I meet a decent guy and come to find out, I’m a piece of ass. And when they don’t get it, I get booted. Dating sucks. Therefore, why I am single.

morethanjust_janedoe Joined Mon 03/12/07 Posts: 488	Wed 04/09/08 01:00 AM
Girl i get the same thing. You are not alone.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Wed 04/09/08 01:01 AM


Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Wed 04/09/08 01:01 AM
i think that answers the question for most of the ladies on this site as well the others....

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 04/09/08 01:01 AM
I hear you - I'll give you to the second date to put out.

scoot_42000 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 268	Wed 04/09/08 01:02 AM
Maybe they find you so irresistable that they can't help but act that way. You are really pretty...

brat88 Joined Tue 02/12/08 Posts: 335	Wed 04/09/08 01:02 AM
yea i get that too..

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Wed 04/09/08 01:03 AM
I hear you - I'll give you to the second date to put out. Heck , i never ask the woman her name till she puts out at least 4 times ..

chel_c Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 15	Wed 04/09/08 01:03 AM
Thanks

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Wed 04/09/08 01:03 AM
i completly understand... if i say yes to a date... its like I know they are going to try to sleep with me.. it is why i say no frequently.... i avoid putting myself in that position......

chel_c Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 15	Wed 04/09/08 01:04 AM
And that thanks was supposed to be for Scoot. <3

scoot_42000 Joined Sat 01/05/08 Posts: 268	Wed 04/09/08 01:04 AM
Thanks No prob; I said it twice lol

lv420z Joined Thu 04/03/08 Posts: 58	Wed 04/09/08 01:05 AM
ok miss goodie two shoes.........not......

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 04/09/08 01:06 AM
i completly understand... if i say yes to a date... its like I know they are going to try to sleep with me.. it is why i say no frequently.... i avoid putting myself in that position...... Guys are like sex now, and date later.

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Wed 04/09/08 01:06 AM
Don't give up. Not all guys are just looking for sex.

chel_c Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 15	Wed 04/09/08 01:06 AM
ok miss goodie two shoes.........not...... was that supposed to be sarcastic?

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Wed 04/09/08 01:07 AM
But stop and think , some women are the same .cause some women wont go out with a guy unless he puts out Money or Sex ..

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Wed 04/09/08 01:07 AM
i am a guy but i have the same problem withwomen when i date them ..when i take my women on a date and order them a big mac and super size fries/ with drink of choice they automatically think that comes with the mcweiner dessert super sized of course...

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 04/09/08 01:09 AM
For you darling I'd go through testosterone regression therapy. Then I'd be able to focus on the date and you.

Kizzin Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 392	Wed 04/09/08 01:09 AM
wow