Topic: Do any other women have this problem with men?
Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:09 AM

So I have a rather serious question, and to some it might be stupid.
But I’m serious; I have a problem with this.
People always ask me…
Why are you single? You’re so pretty, blah blah.
I always answer, because I hate dating.
They ask why, I tell them.
It’s because whenever I go out on a date,
Men automatically think they’re going to sleep with me.
Is this a common thing?
Or do I just get the pick of the litter?

And for all you who are going to ask the following…
No I do not dress like a slut.
No I do not make eyes at them like I want them.
No I do not go home with them.
No I do not kiss on the first date.

I do however do the following…
Have nice polite conversation.
Laugh at their jokes, if they’re funny.
Flirt with them, that don’t mean I want to sleep with them.
And am nice to them.

It’s frustrating!
I think I meet a decent guy and come to find out,
I’m a piece of ass.
And when they don’t get it, I get booted.
Dating sucks.
Therefore, why I am single.



Yep..sounds like me too....

no photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:10 AM
Ok.....CHECKED your profile pics and all I seen were boobs...not to say they were slutty pics of all but you know where guys minds go.......try the nuns habit next time!!!:wink: laugh laugh

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:12 AM

Ok.....CHECKED your profile pics and all I seen were boobs...not to say they were slutty pics of all but you know where guys minds go.......try the nuns habit next time!!!:wink: laugh laugh


Yeah sorry that they're kind of out there.
It happens when, you know, they're there.
Hard to hide them. bigsmile

Derekkye's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:12 AM

Ok.....CHECKED your profile pics and all I seen were boobs...not to say they were slutty pics of all but you know where guys minds go.......try the nuns habit next time!!!:wink: laugh laugh

Us guys need a woman to make our case noway - suits me fine. :smile:

Derekkye's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:13 AM


Ok.....CHECKED your profile pics and all I seen were boobs...not to say they were slutty pics of all but you know where guys minds go.......try the nuns habit next time!!!:wink: laugh laugh


Yeah sorry that they're kind of out there.
It happens when, you know, they're there.
Hard to hide them. bigsmile

Let me look - expect an influx of visitors now!:tongue:

Derekkye's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:14 AM

Ok.....CHECKED your profile pics and all I seen were boobs...not to say they were slutty pics of all but you know where guys minds go.......try the nuns habit next time!!!:wink: laugh laugh

laugh laugh laugh no wonder

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:14 AM
Unfortunately, when so many girls put out these days, the guys will keep trying...

Cowgirlstomp's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:18 AM
I am right there with ya girl... And I work in a bar so its worse... The regulars can't understand why I am single and the newcomers automatically think they can get a piece.... It sux ass!!

Derekkye's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:20 AM
Wouldn't you ladies be puzzled though if you went on dates and guys weren't interested in having sex?

DrX's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:21 AM
guys are douche bags, all people think about is getting off. there isnt anytime for romance and memories, it's all wham bam can you get the check mam.
I would like to encourage you and say you will meet some guy who isnt like that, but here's your choices of that, 1. a momma's boy or 2. super nerd who talks about star gate all night.
there isnt much hope, just remember the nicer the car, the smaller the penis, the fancier the job = more testosterone, which equals date rape.
Just find a normal guy, no fancy job, no pns mobile and just have fun, I would say carry pepper spray, but let's be real if a guy is going that far, he needs more justice, I recomend a butterly knife 7 inch blade curvy, stick it in and twist then pull it out, repeat until he crys.

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:21 AM
Actually no.
I would be relieved.
There is so much tension when thats the case.
Is he going to be nice,
Does he just want sex?
I hate worrying about that all night.
Then getting let down normally.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:22 AM
Nope, I'd know I found a gentleman. Something you obviously know nothing about... ahhh my friends list got lighter... thanks for this post, chel_c!laugh

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:22 AM

guys are douche bags, all people think about is getting off. there isnt anytime for romance and memories, it's all wham bam can you get the check mam.
I would like to encourage you and say you will meet some guy who isnt like that, but here's your choices of that, 1. a momma's boy or 2. super nerd who talks about star gate all night.
there isnt much hope, just remember the nicer the car, the smaller the penis, the fancier the job = more testosterone, which equals date rape.
Just find a normal guy, no fancy job, no pns mobile and just have fun, I would say carry pepper spray, but let's be real if a guy is going that far, he needs more justice, I recomend a butterly knife 7 inch blade curvy, stick it in and twist then pull it out, repeat until he crys.



surprisingly, i carry a switchblade at all times.bigsmile

Spaceman2008's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:23 AM

I am right there with ya girl... And I work in a bar so its worse... The regulars can't understand why I am single and the newcomers automatically think they can get a piece.... It sux ass!!


I never think that when I go to places like that...

wiley's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:24 AM
Edited by wiley on Wed 04/09/08 01:24 AM

So I have a rather serious question, and to some it might be stupid.
But I’m serious; I have a problem with this.
People always ask me…
Why are you single? You’re so pretty, blah blah.
I always answer, because I hate dating.
They ask why, I tell them.
It’s because whenever I go out on a date,
Men automatically think they’re going to sleep with me.
Is this a common thing?
Or do I just get the pick of the litter?

And for all you who are going to ask the following…
No I do not dress like a slut.
No I do not make eyes at them like I want them.
No I do not go home with them.
No I do not kiss on the first date.

I do however do the following…
Have nice polite conversation.
Laugh at their jokes, if they’re funny.
Flirt with them, that don’t mean I want to sleep with them.
And am nice to them.

It’s frustrating!
I think I meet a decent guy and come to find out,
I’m a piece of ass.
And when they don’t get it, I get booted.
Dating sucks.
Therefore, why I am single.


You're just not dating the right guys. I try to never assume anything. I'm usually always wrong.

DrX's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:26 AM


guys are douche bags, all people think about is getting off. there isnt anytime for romance and memories, it's all wham bam can you get the check mam.
I would like to encourage you and say you will meet some guy who isnt like that, but here's your choices of that, 1. a momma's boy or 2. super nerd who talks about star gate all night.
there isnt much hope, just remember the nicer the car, the smaller the penis, the fancier the job = more testosterone, which equals date rape.
Just find a normal guy, no fancy job, no pns mobile and just have fun, I would say carry pepper spray, but let's be real if a guy is going that far, he needs more justice, I recomend a butterly knife 7 inch blade curvy, stick it in and twist then pull it out, repeat until he crys.



surprisingly, i carry a switchblade at all times.bigsmile


very smart girl, best advice run if you can, if you can't slice the guy up like he's a pizza at chuck e. cheese.
So sad I have to despise my own gender, but so many rapists and douche bags has driven me to that point.

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:27 AM

Nope, I'd know I found a gentleman. Something you obviously know nothing about... ahhh my friends list got lighter... thanks for this post, chel_c!laugh


No problem. laugh
Glad I could be of assistance. flowerforyou

DrX's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:31 AM
also I checked your profile, unless this board is full of Morman's your pictures seem pretty tame to me.

wiley's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:32 AM
I agree.

chel_c's photo
Wed 04/09/08 01:34 AM
Thanks guys. :heart:
I've seen soooo much worse.