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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this. After I sat down and thought about it I realized that I do not quite fit as the perfect man aka Prince Charming, The One, Mr. Right, etc. It came to my attention that more than likely if your viewing this post neither are you. No one is perfect, no one will ever be that 100% that you want. At most we simple men can be between 80% to 95%. No matter how hard we try. Now I know that the women viewing this might be saying "oh he doesn't have to be perfect" I beg to differ. People are single for generally two reasons.
1) That person doesn't quite fit that mold of perfection we want 2) We don't fit that mold of perfection for the other person Some of us know this first hand from experience while some of us are sitting reading this in denial. So I ask the question... why? Why do we constantly look for that 100% person ignoring or rejecting anything less. I'm not saying lower your standards by any means just broaden them. I'm a <100% kinda guy lookin for that <100% kinda girl. I don't want perfection. So what do you want in all honesty? Looking for Perfection? |
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Edited by
Elizabeth98999
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Tue 04/08/08 03:42 AM
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this. After I sat down and thought about it I realized that I do not quite fit as the perfect man aka Prince Charming, The One, Mr. Right, etc. It came to my attention that more than likely if your viewing this post neither are you. No one is perfect, no one will ever be that 100% that you want. At most we simple men can be between 80% to 95%. No matter how hard we try. Now I know that the women viewing this might be saying "oh he doesn't have to be perfect" I beg to differ. People are single for generally two reasons. 1) That person doesn't quite fit that mold of perfection we want 2) We don't fit that mold of perfection for the other person Some of us know this first hand from experience while some of us are sitting reading this in denial. So I ask the question... why? Why do we constantly look for that 100% person ignoring or rejecting anything less. I'm not saying lower your standards by any means just broaden them. I'm a <100% kinda guy lookin for that <100% kinda girl. I don't want perfection. So what do you want in all honesty? Looking for Perfection? "Perfection doesn't exist..I want someone who is right for me, not Mr. Perfect looking for Ms. Perfect. |
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Edited by
whispertoascream
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Tue 04/08/08 03:43 AM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting Mr.Right. Everybody has there own definition on what it means to them. And NOBODY should have to lower the expectation for anybody. Sure we may want Mr. Right. But it doesn't me we are striving for perfection. It just means that you could be Mr. Right to one person and not the next.
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There is nothing wrong with wanting Mr.Right. Everybody has there own definition on what it means to them. And NOBODY should have to lower the expectation for anybody. Sure we may want Mr. Right. But it doesn't me we are striving for perfection. It just means that you could be Mr. Right to one person and not the next. You are right |
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most are in off-line relationships already....they come here when their partner is away from their computer...
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Edited by
whispertoascream
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Tue 04/08/08 04:09 AM
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Is that what you are doing?
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Yeah and as you get older your standards get lower.LOL
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...just looking for Mr. Right-for-Me. Not necessarily for perfection...
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...just looking for Mr. Right-for-Me. Not necessarily for perfection...
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I think it's a slippery slope... on the one hand you shouldn't settle, but on the other hand you should be open-minded towards someone who may not necessarily have been what your dream was but who'll make you happy. I don't think it's about perfection so much as standards.
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this.
would you prefer we look for mr. wrong? |
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this.
would you prefer we look for mr. wrong? As my profile says "I'm not Mr. Right but I'll keep you company till he shows up" 
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this. After I sat down and thought about it I realized that I do not quite fit as the perfect man aka Prince Charming, The One, Mr. Right, etc. It came to my attention that more than likely if your viewing this post neither are you. No one is perfect, no one will ever be that 100% that you want. At most we simple men can be between 80% to 95%. No matter how hard we try. Now I know that the women viewing this might be saying "oh he doesn't have to be perfect" I beg to differ. People are single for generally two reasons. 1) That person doesn't quite fit that mold of perfection we want 2) We don't fit that mold of perfection for the other person Some of us know this first hand from experience while some of us are sitting reading this in denial. So I ask the question... why? Why do we constantly look for that 100% person ignoring or rejecting anything less. I'm not saying lower your standards by any means just broaden them. I'm a <100% kinda guy lookin for that <100% kinda girl. I don't want perfection. So what do you want in all honesty? Looking for Perfection? No one is perfect, but there is someone out there just perfect for "me". What is perfect for one person may not fit the criteria nor mold of another person perception. I am looking for Mr. 99.99999999% perfect for "me". Leaving a margin for error and/or the unknown
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I am not Mr. Right for anyone-at least right now.
Nor am I Mr. Right Now, My first name shouldn't be "Always" and neither would yours. I doubt there will every be another Mrs. for me. And it all suits me just fine-for right now. |
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this. After I sat down and thought about it I realized that I do not quite fit as the perfect man aka Prince Charming, The One, Mr. Right, etc. It came to my attention that more than likely if your viewing this post neither are you. No one is perfect, no one will ever be that 100% that you want. At most we simple men can be between 80% to 95%. No matter how hard we try. Now I know that the women viewing this might be saying "oh he doesn't have to be perfect" I beg to differ. People are single for generally two reasons. 1) That person doesn't quite fit that mold of perfection we want 2) We don't fit that mold of perfection for the other person Some of us know this first hand from experience while some of us are sitting reading this in denial. So I ask the question... why? Why do we constantly look for that 100% person ignoring or rejecting anything less. I'm not saying lower your standards by any means just broaden them. I'm a <100% kinda guy lookin for that <100% kinda girl. I don't want perfection. So what do you want in all honesty? Looking for Perfection? not looking for perfection just someone with a pulse will do!!
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this. After I sat down and thought about it I realized that I do not quite fit as the perfect man aka Prince Charming, The One, Mr. Right, etc. It came to my attention that more than likely if your viewing this post neither are you. No one is perfect, no one will ever be that 100% that you want. At most we simple men can be between 80% to 95%. No matter how hard we try. Now I know that the women viewing this might be saying "oh he doesn't have to be perfect" I beg to differ. People are single for generally two reasons. 1) That person doesn't quite fit that mold of perfection we want 2) We don't fit that mold of perfection for the other person Some of us know this first hand from experience while some of us are sitting reading this in denial. So I ask the question... why? Why do we constantly look for that 100% person ignoring or rejecting anything less. I'm not saying lower your standards by any means just broaden them. I'm a <100% kinda guy lookin for that <100% kinda girl. I don't want perfection. So what do you want in all honesty? Looking for Perfection? Because we have self esteem??? I don't want Mr. Right, or Mr. Perfect... I want Mr. slightly handsome, moderatly romantic, and highly intelligent....or visa versa on the intelligent and romantic..... I'm not too set in my ways. Anything less... is unaccpetable. |
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Yeah and as you get older your standards get lower.LOL speak for yourself... mine have only gotten higher the older and wiser I've gotten..... |
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I've been looking around this site and it has come to m attention that all women want Mr. Right. I'm startled by this.
would you prefer we look for mr. wrong? I dated him and ALL of his kin.... I can give out digits if anyone wants them.....
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I'm not sure what I don't want until I date someone who has that quality.
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If every man was Prince Charming, then being a prince would be average and ordinary.
You say this about women, and I'm sure you must realize that a lot of men have odd expectations of real women, too. I don't want a prince-whatever, but there are absolutely specific things I NEED to have in a bona-fide partner. It's not about looks or money, but they are things I would need in order to consider building a relationship. If a man doesn't have those things, he's simply not Mr. Right. Best wishes in finding your mate! 
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