I don't think I have lowered my standards since I have gotten older, IF anything...I made them higher! I am not really looking for Mr Perfect, I am just looking for my best friend! I think maybe thats where I am different from a lot of people here...I am just looking for friendship. IF something developes out of that friendship that would be great, but I am not expecting anything.
I am truly happy and content with my life just the way it is. If things are going good, why would you change it? I finally know who I am and what I want out of life...that my friend is a very good feeling