Topic: Falling in love or just confused?
A64WOODY's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:18 PM


We are planning a meeting and all that has been said here, I have also thought. I know I need to meet her before I can actually believe that I may be falling for her. Nervousness is plentiful.


It is excited nervous and not scared nervous... right?
I feel that we are both excited nervous. We seem to click so well that it seems scary!

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Sun 04/06/08 03:18 PM

Hello everyone! I have a question for all to ponder and reply to. My question is this.....Is it possible to fall in love with someone on one of the dating sites based mainly on email and IMing and without ever meeting her/him in person? Great conversation is important in any relationship but is that enough to say that you may love that person? Or could you just say that you are emotionally confused and being blind to the physical portion of that relationship?


Gee Woody was it the warbles?blushing

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Sun 04/06/08 03:20 PM


Hello everyone! I have a question for all to ponder and reply to. My question is this.....Is it possible to fall in love with someone on one of the dating sites based mainly on email and IMing and without ever meeting her/him in person? Great conversation is important in any relationship but is that enough to say that you may love that person? Or could you just say that you are emotionally confused and being blind to the physical portion of that relationship?


Gee Woody was it the warbles?blushing
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh The warbles bug me!

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Sun 04/06/08 03:21 PM
LOL flowerforyou

I would say you have a good start but definately need to keepthings in perspective untilyou actually meet. Good luck to you!

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:25 PM
I still think Jax has the best answer I ever heard. I fell in something.laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:26 PM

Hello everyone! I have a question for all to ponder and reply to. My question is this.....Is it possible to fall in love with someone on one of the dating sites based mainly on email and IMing and without ever meeting her/him in person? Great conversation is important in any relationship but is that enough to say that you may love that person? Or could you just say that you are emotionally confused and being blind to the physical portion of that relationship?

Its possible..I've known MANY who did it.

wiley's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:28 PM
I would think it would be completely possible as long as both parties are honest with each other and with themselves. But then honesty seems to be a rarity on the internet. *shrug*

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:30 PM

I would think it would be completely possible as long as both parties are honest with each other and with themselves. But then honesty seems to be a rarity on the internet. *shrug*

honesty is rare ANYWHERE..not just online.

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Sun 04/06/08 03:31 PM


I would think it would be completely possible as long as both parties are honest with each other and with themselves. But then honesty seems to be a rarity on the internet. *shrug*

honesty is rare ANYWHERE..not just online.


That's true.

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Sun 04/06/08 03:32 PM
Have to meet in person. I've met people online, had great conversations, seemed to really really connect, and then met after several months of this and had absolutely no chemistry with them in person. No connection that takes it from friendship to more than friends.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:32 PM
I mean seriously..if people could be honest in person..would any of us be on this site..would there be a need for sites like this?laugh

wiley's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:33 PM
I think I'm pretty honest. I'm just too damn picky.

A64WOODY's photo
Sun 04/06/08 03:39 PM
Why are not poeople just, plain and simple, honest at all times?Why tell someone one thing,and actually mean another?

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Sun 04/06/08 03:45 PM

Why are not poeople just, plain and simple, honest at all times?Why tell someone one thing,and actually mean another?


Fear of rejection. Fear of hurting the other person. Just plain selfishness. Plenty of reasons really. Doesn't make it right, but there are plenty of reasons.

A64WOODY's photo
Sun 04/06/08 04:14 PM
no true relationship can be started with a lie.

wiley's photo
Sun 04/06/08 04:15 PM

no true relationship can be started with a lie.



I agree. Now if everybody else just felt that way.

A64WOODY's photo
Sun 04/06/08 04:18 PM


no true relationship can be started with a lie.



I agree. Now if everybody else just felt that way.
They are out there somewhere!

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Sun 04/06/08 04:26 PM

Hello everyone! I have a question for all to ponder and reply to. My question is this.....Is it possible to fall in love with someone on one of the dating sites based mainly on email and IMing and without ever meeting her/him in person? Great conversation is important in any relationship but is that enough to say that you may love that person? Or could you just say that you are emotionally confused and being blind to the physical portion of that relationship?
:heart: I have SEEN,,,FELT,,,and DONE..
The THOUGHT it was a REAL, CLOSE inside FIRE, of LOVE,,,,,before,,,meeting them,,,,.
THEN, found out THAT,,"WE", were NOT lovible as a pair..

And I personaaly feel,,NO-ONE,,can trully say they are INLOVE, until they really meet, share, live, TIME, together,...
I mean at least a couple of months,,,to really feel-the other ones,,,,true heart...:heart:

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Sun 04/06/08 04:51 PM



We are planning a meeting and all that has been said here, I have also thought. I know I need to meet her before I can actually believe that I may be falling for her. Nervousness is plentiful.


It is excited nervous and not scared nervous... right?
I feel that we are both excited nervous. We seem to click so well that it seems scary!



That is a great sign and I hope that your meeting goes well! flowerforyou
Enjoy yourself and your intended when you do have that meeting.
Please let us all know how it went. :wink:

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Sun 04/06/08 04:54 PM
I will and thanks. I wish for only the best for all!