i just cant seem to find any decent men online.
im a caring loving gentle giving wonderful woman
that just wants love like anyone else here does.
tell me what you all think about this ok.

Ohhhhhhhhhhh sweetie, Love is not found,, it comes to you ,, when you least expect it,,, Join in the forums meet some people,, chat, and you never know what could happen

Hugs,, now go have some fun

We all no the feeling.But it takes time.You haven't been here very long.Give it time.Lots of new people showing up every day.
You never know when Love will happen.
Just relax and have fun.All you can exspect is to make freinds.And be happy with that for now.I have found that the men here are not going to email first.But there are some that will.
Hang in there.Your true love my be just a click away.
Good luck.

Hi there, i know exactly what you are saying?
I have been wondering myself! But i thnik men are either too self asured or don't know what they really want?
May be they have this fantasy that theit fancy woman would come online, and invite them for a hot sex, even cook for them afterwards as well!!
They tend to forget that no matter what most women like to be chatted, and then asked out nicely, and if they are sophisticated,
everything will follow smoothly.

cause most ladys are to dam picky,and always try taking us apart when real prolem is the lady that needs look in the mirror to find whats wrong with her,if some of us man acted like everyone owes me attuide we loose are right on this site i dont think anyone should be on hear if not metal issues and say they are hear for realtionship,and most women on hear i have noticed are down right mean and selfess and self centered,not all but 95% and other half are really looking and not playing games on this site,but hey some people have hookup on this site which is cool.and another is match thing most are not matches,the search engines are missed up to but iam not in control of this site,and is free thats another prolem with it but anyway if got,cool head and truely want find somone i think should try other sites to but alot good people on hear just looking for freinds,but about it,if can turn it around for you then good luck to you.

and the distances are all messed up,when comes to a match,but hey you got rember this is a free site,have good one

i have tried to meet on here & as soon as you say you want to... they freak out & just stop talking as if you did something wrong!

itz not so hard i see it everywhere








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love is hard becuase only those who are worthy of it can have it and it take time to find love ive been single for two years and still looking for love aint that something

michelle with only 14 posts you expect a large audience or selection. join the forums, have fun, stop stressing and searching, everything happens for a reason and in due time.

enjoy life, stay positive and have fun JMO

Good luck 2 ya

ty everything for posting here and giving me such
wonderful advice too.
god bless you all.

Bitter much?

no im happy here hun
i aint bitter about anything.

That wasn't meant for you.

I was talking to the man who was advising 95% of the women here to look in the mirror to solve his problems.

maybe were just

""loking for love in all the wrong places""


would do more but do not wanna get yelled at

sorry hun

I dont think it's hard to find love, what I do think is the emphasis on not finding it that takes up most of your time. Impatience and thinking love will expire (its doesnt come w/an expiration date)

Love will find a way --- except to my house. It will stay away if it knows what good for it

But honestly love will find you, most likely when you have stopped looking for it.

I know exactly what you mean. I am on other sites too, and the selection sucks. I have chated with a few, then all of a sudden your not a good match, or their to dumb to respond back to you, even if they say no thanks, it's just commen courtesy. I cant believe men over 35 are still so shallow that they still want the barbie doll type. A real women is your best bet every time.

yea your right there just hate being alone
i have my son and i love him more then life
but just aint the same you know
id love to be in love its just magical
ty for your advice