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Topic: What should I do?
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Tue 04/01/08 09:07 PM
Well good luck with it bro. Just talk to her and if she has no further interest brush it off and move on. If theres anything i've learned about rejection is that it's best to take it like a man and just find someone new and forget about it.

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Tue 04/01/08 09:11 PM

Well good luck with it bro. Just talk to her and if she has no further interest brush it off and move on. If theres anything i've learned about rejection is that it's best to take it like a man and just find someone new and forget about it.


Thanks man. I'll keep it in mind

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Tue 04/01/08 09:13 PM
flowerforyou best of luck!

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Tue 04/01/08 09:18 PM

flowerforyou best of luck!


Immma add you :D

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Tue 04/01/08 09:21 PM


flowerforyou best of luck!


Immma add you :D

otay

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Tue 04/01/08 09:27 PM
seems very odd to me. i think there may be something fishy here.

she acts flattered but does not want to talk to you
very much or go out when you have invited her...

i could understand if she was a little hesitant to meet
face to face - but it doesn't seem promising that she is
reluctant to talk on the phone...such an undemanding and
unobtrusive way to get to know someone better...


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Tue 04/01/08 09:27 PM
dude, think of it this way, ok. you only live once, and we all know, and you know that if you do not say or do something or even give it a shot, you'll regret it. so... are you going to regret saying you didn't try and always wonder, or... are you going to get some confidence and make yourself noticable

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Tue 04/01/08 09:32 PM

seems very odd to me. i think there may be something fishy here.

she acts flattered but does not want to talk to you
very much or go out when you have invited her...

i could understand if she was a little hesitant to meet
face to face - but it doesn't seem promising that she is
reluctant to talk on the phone...such an undemanding and
unobtrusive way to get to know someone better...




I know thats what I"m thinking to myself. But I posted earlier thinking that...it may have been a prank from someone to leave a note with my name on it. A fake number. I mean it only makes sense. If she wasn't interested, then she wouldn't have left a note with her number, which only explains that it may have been a prank. She probaby doesn't know about that note and is still expecting something out of me, like to walk up to her or something

jasonbourne2002's photo
Tue 04/01/08 09:33 PM

dude, think of it this way, ok. you only live once, and we all know, and you know that if you do not say or do something or even give it a shot, you'll regret it. so... are you going to regret saying you didn't try and always wonder, or... are you going to get some confidence and make yourself noticable


No, I understand what your going to say. I want to go and say something but I"m still in self doubt, but I guess the only thing I need to know is to just let that go

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Wed 04/02/08 12:15 AM
Ok here is what I do in these situations: Reach into your pocket and grab the nearest quarter, now take this quarter in your thumb resting above the nail but up against the pointer finger...flip it and call it in the air, here is your answer...or you can go with obvious and introduce yourself formally and ask if she would like to do something sometime (coffee, movie, doesn't really matter).

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Wed 04/02/08 01:47 PM


just go up to her....after work of course and be standing by her car with a rose in your handbigsmile


You think so? You wouldn't think thats going a bit too far? Like I said, I don't want to seem like I"m stalking her by waiting by her car


I think you'd sound like a stalker by NOT waiting for her. Leaving a string of presents and roses and notes for someone who doesn't know you sounds rather creepy.

Step up, man up and go talk to her next time you see her.

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