It has crossed my mind. I have a tendency to watch for signs. Ever since the week has started, we've been running into each other at the parking lot and well....I've never really managed to work up the guts to say a simple hello, and mostly because I think too much. I can't help but wonder...

This site is good for that...isnt it peachy?

I know I should. It's sound like a qoute from the Bucket List. You only live once. Don't think twice. I want to. I really do, but...I...grrr...I really don't know

I'm shy too...but sometimes you have to take a deep breath, stand tall and approach the unapproachable, or you never will know.

Yeah well...it's no different on my end. It sucks. To be honest, I've never been in an actual relationship. The longest I've been in one was only 6 hours during school and I wouldn't even consider that as a relationship. It sucks to see it all around you, to want someone so bad that you kinda feel like you have no power at all to change it. And to be constantly reminded is even worse but the only people pulling me through that situation is my friends and family. Hell my freinds has been taking me clubbing for 8 straight weeks and well.....*shrugs*

You know what, sometimes I kind of feel like I know the outcome because of numerous repeats in the past. I always tell myself that I know whats going to happen when I approach this person, because it's either a "no" or a "i'm not interested, thanks." To have been used as a toy, twice, for only a few hours just to make someone else jealous has left me scarred because of it. It's still there. Time has done it's time of healing it, but the memory of it is literally on my mind and heart

my suggestion is to hide out after work, follow her home, and hide outside her windows in the bushes. bring your video camera with you and see if you can get a few good shots of her in the shower or something.

keep this up until the cops show up and arrest you, you'll go to court, maybe jail, but definitely a restraining order.


once all that happens i guarantee she will always remember you

Superman that hoe.

Just go for it. U'll beat ur self up for weeks even months, wondering... Screw that... Just take the risk i know its hard. but u gotta do it

Seriously, just meet up with her and just talk to her. Stop leaving roses and being creepy.

**** it, I will. I'm still upset for her doing that. I mean honestly, whats the point of her leaving her number and yet, make it seem she isn't interested. But I'll put it aside and just see weather or not she is interested. But I have been thinking that...it may have been a prank

Yeah I'll take that advice

Dont think, Just go with ur gut and heart!


I may be young, but i know what i'm talking about

I wasn't trying to be rude, but leaving a girl you don't even know a rose is kind of stalkerish bro. Just be yourself and see how things go don't try and buy your way into a girls heart.

No I was serious man. I'll take that advice. I've been thinking about it and well hearing it from people saying it's time for me to actually walk up to her and say something, then I'll take it as a sign that I should make my move

You'd be suprised Brenda. Most people who are young, actually have alot of wisdom that they seem to have.

hey now, ur not that much older than me....but yeah i can be pretty smart when i wanna be

I know. I'm still a kid at heart but I can think and give advice on an adult level. So we're both alike :)

now i better hear something positve back from all this

I'll bump this thread back up tomorrow and let you know the outcome