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set new energies, more positive, leave the lonely stuff away from you. if you want to be with someone, but you've always got a wealth of info here on life experience, and it's a free site...just leave it open, you'll never know what comes up.  Great advice Owl...
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I never thought this was a site to date, to meet, to fall in love, to find parts of you scattered across the globe. I had no intention of anything other than dribbling on, about stuff that at the time felt I could share.... Funny what you get, when you have no intent.   same here, i got more than i bargained for, i wasn't looking......and bam. |
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 it was there all the time.... as was he.
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it was there all the time.... as was he. 
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ok - i'm not sorry and i don't hope you feel better!
but i do hope you continue to enjoy our friends here and that someone really special crosses your path wherever that may be. 
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And I hate, hate doing this, but i need to let it out. I JUST GAVE UP DATING SITES. It's so frustrating first the distance when you find somebody who is worth, that person lives so far away. Or when you find somebody who seems to be nice her family is paranoic and she can't take her own decisions. Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm attracting the wrong people. But the decision it's final I'm absolutely closing the possibility to find a girlfriend through here. I will remain here though because the forums are so addictive and a lot of fun. Notes: 1) If you (you know who you are) read this thread, I'm not talking about you at all. You are very special. The timing was just wrong. You have your things going on, and I totally understand. 2) This is not a pitty-seeking thread, so please avoid comments such as I'm sorry or I hope you feel better. That was not my intention. This is just a release of a bunch of crap inside that needed to come out. Same here. Met some nice people here. It just sucks that they live a minimum of 1000 miles away. It's almost like this place specializes in unrealistic LDRs or something. 
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Heya .. I never did come on here for dates, only for previous friends and the forums. Makes it easy.
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And I hate, hate doing this, but i need to let it out. I JUST GAVE UP DATING SITES. It's so frustrating first the distance when you find somebody who is worth, that person lives so far away. Or when you find somebody who seems to be nice her family is paranoic and she can't take her own decisions. Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm attracting the wrong people. But the decision it's final I'm absolutely closing the possibility to find a girlfriend through here. I will remain here though because the forums are so addictive and a lot of fun. Notes: 1) If you (you know who you are) read this thread, I'm not talking about you at all. You are very special. The timing was just wrong. You have your things going on, and I totally understand. 2) This is not a pitty-seeking thread, so please avoid comments such as I'm sorry or I hope you feel better. That was not my intention. This is just a release of a bunch of crap inside that needed to come out.  I totally agree with ya Walker
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I say this to all.
Stop looking so hard! when it's ment to happen it will happen. We have no control over some things and to push for it will never get anyone anyware. Hell it took a year before i found some one and it lasted for almost a year but now i'm starting over again. Will i give up hope that there is someone out there for me? No... Life goes on, how you chose to deal with it is up to you and i chose to be happy today. |
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....ok already...damn, I'm gonna break all my own rules here...but this is just wrong....
I've been a single mom most of 31 years now...I was diagnosed w/a life/threatening disease 5 yrs back which had been mis-diod for 10 yrs thats 15 yrs folks...I just got back from visiting Texas last week and I had one...yes just one day outa 7 that I got to visit the person I met on line in Jan. I was suppose to meet in person, he is a cancer survivor so he knows the value of time and life too....thats 1300 miles for actually about 7 hours...but it felt like a life time while it was happening...we dont know whats next....just playin it all by ear...he has closer people who he could and I have closer people that I could but Aries to Aries during the sun in Aries it was nothing short of awesome....CARPE DIEM (m---er f----rs)as Bette would say......we have today...right now....would you cry in your beer if/when they were to say this is your last day on earth...??? I am 48+ sexy alive highly intellegent and a great f---,dont make me line you'al up and beat your sorry as--s...I get/not lied to every 3 person I meet on line...and your point is....come on boys and girls get a grip, we find what we need, and we get more only when we are very very hungry for it, thats the world I've lived in for close to a 1/2 century.... ~wicked~
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Hey if you can't find a relationship settle for the sex....
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Edited by
feralcatlady
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Tue 04/01/08 12:26 PM
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I am just glad I don't have to date........I feel for all having to not only just date.....but try and date this way....very hard indeed.
From having the match site I see the pros and cons....The greatest thing I see from dating this way is that if and when the people meet...the communication is killer...because that is all you have here. You don't have the physical which is what most use in real life.....and the communication if it comes, happens much later. Here since that is all you have I think people get to know each other on such a different level. I also think that so many people have their expectations of what they want, and don't give certain ppl based on looks the time of day. I find this sooo sad because they are possibly missing out on meeting the greatest person of all. P.S. You know always here to vent if you need....... |
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my motto in this instance is, f*** it, two tears in a bucket.
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im sorry i hope you feel better i pity you
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I never thought this was a site to date, to meet, to fall in love, to find parts of you scattered across the globe. I had no intention of anything other than dribbling on, about stuff that at the time felt I could share.... Funny what you get, when you have no intent. same here, i got more than i bargained for, i wasn't looking......and bam. I am in the same boat as you two. I found this place by accident, never really thought anything would materialize, and then BAM!!!!!!!!!!..........I got the shocker of a lifetime. 
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Dude; have you seen the movie ''the secret''? As long as your name is lonelywalker; you will always walk alone. You decided to lose before the game started, you just didn't know it. An idiot might get arrogant and name themselves loveadonis or some crap; but maybe you should go by mrniceguy, or something similar. Or just use your name. You are what you want to be. You are what you say you are. Be a walkerofthecrowd, not a lonely01, lol.
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Hey if you can't find a relationship settle for the sex.... Great idea
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Dude; have you seen the movie ''the secret''? As long as your name is lonelywalker; you will always walk alone. You decided to lose before the game started, you just didn't know it. An idiot might get arrogant and name themselves loveadonis or some crap; but maybe you should go by mrniceguy, or something similar. Or just use your name. You are what you want to be. You are what you say you are. Be a walkerofthecrowd, not a lonely01, lol. I actually have the dvd and the book. And u might be right. I think I intentionally chose the screename. I don't feel like having a relationship based upon emails, IM, and phone. |
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Well I KNOW I chose my s/n intentionally. I used to be snshyne and when my BF and I had a huge split I switched it up to fade2black because that's what I wanted to do
Since then we've reunited many times lol .. but the metallica song stuck Hey Lonely .. you wanna cam? 
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