i used to,i have just about gotten where i really just don't give a sh*t anymore

I stopped lookin.....


someone found me, broke my heart, then wants me back....OI why do these things happen? Doesn't matter....things are what they are.... IF its ment to be it will be

I think I do try too hard, but thats because I'm always seeing what I want from other people and the crowd around me. It's kinda hard to resist yourself from trying when your constantly reminded of something that you feel you can't get when you've never had it for once

Honestly....im just here for friends rite now.
I have pretty much had it with the online dating thing.
If i meet someone...great
If i dont...great
It will happen when its supposed to
I find that if i try too hard, it leads me to the wrong kinda men
So im just hangin out here with all the great friends i've made
And havin a blast!

You know what I'm saying the same thing in the back of my head constantly, but after a while, it starts to come back. I have a tendency to loose it and I end up breaking apart, not so much as to want someone so bad, but not experience it at my age. I know I'm still young, but even at my age, I know I should at least have been on a date. At LEAST. And yet, I haven't really even been on one, nor have I ever managed to ask someone gorgeous out because, I'm shy, like some guys out there

Love the hair by the way :)

Haha, this thread pretty much shows how, uh, ineffective, JSH has been for most people.

I suppose some of us guys could use the statistical approach and just email as many women as possible. One is bound to respond!

i prefer to wait on the guy to make the first move

I dont look at all........maybe I should???

Making the first move is like trying to flank a machine gun battery during World War II.

You step out of the cover, and a hail of bullets come your way, you dodge, make a move, run for cover, all the while bullets whizzing overhead, at your feet.

You pause behind cover, fire a shot, covering fire!

Run again, push it, not too far, you can make it, dive for the trench...

Ack!

Nooooooooo!

MEDIC!

I have band aids!!!

I'm joking. Somewhat.

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if i see someone i like i'll talk it up first, but if theres someone that i havent seen yet and then oh well they'll have to talk first i guess. it doesnt matter to me. i have very little faith in dating sites anymore anyway.

thats funny because i have come to the point for the most part to let the woman come to me,i'm tired of trying.

So, you compair dating to being shot by enemy fire?

No... you sometimes just have to put yourself out there. Gotta take the chance. Sometimes you make it, sometimes you get shot down.

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hi lily,how are you?

yeah, I'd like it if the guy makes the first move. I'll browse the profiles of potentials. Than I hope that they will look at mine and decide if they like to start sending e-mail.

Lily your awesome