Just started here about a month ago... Even though it says on my profile I'm interested in more then just a sexual encounter, about 30-45% of the men who message me are saying extremely disgusting things to me for a first message. There is no "hi" or "how are you?" It all goes straight to something nasty...
*** warning ***
Example-and I quote this guy who was 52 (I'm 18): why don't you come sit on my face so I can lick that ***....
^^^^^ excuse me?! Do I know you? *delete and block*
Why do guys here do that?!?! It's so gross!

The reason I don't is because then a guy may just use me for that and I don't like that idea. I think sex is special. Do I believe you need to wait till marriage? Hell no- thats one of the biggest reasons for Divorce: no sexual compatibility.... But it still shouldn't happen for a few months if not a year of regular dates and maybe after meeting the family of the other person.