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They deny themselves the pleasure of having sexual intercourse on first dates just because of some unwritten rule that says they're cheap if they do. They care more about what people think than having fun in life. It's completely insane because we only get one life. They are like slaves, its so sad.
"Do what thou will shall be the whole of the law." |
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Edited by
Awatersign
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Mon 01/12/15 06:17 AM
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Have you been talking to thee,"unholy one"???(
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 01/12/15 06:23 AM
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let me provide a brief but timely edit that will I believe provide an instant and conclusive answer:
"They deny themselves the pleasure of having sexual intercourse on first dates just because of some unwritten rule, *written by men, that says they're cheap if they do" |
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They deny themselves the pleasure of having sexual intercourse on first dates just because of some unwritten rule that says they're cheap if they do. They care more about what people think than having fun in life. It's completely insane because we only get one life. They are like slaves, its so sad. "Do what thou will shall be the whole of the law." yeah,why do they have to be so mean to themselves by not hooking up with you? What a Travesty! 
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I'm guessing this rule was invented in the Christian era. Men must've really suffered back then. The pagan era was much more fun and interesting.
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I'm guessing this rule was invented in the Christian era. Men must've really suffered back then. The pagan era was much more fun and interesting. what happen? Suffering from a Case of Blue Cojones?
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Which is probably why poetry was so popular back then. You can feel the anguish, the torment in each poem. Milton, for example, was always harping on about nymphs.
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I'm not worried if women don't look like their pictures. Almost all of them don't anyway. The men that do care must be extremely fussy.
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You must not get laid on the first day. Its more important to get to know each other better which could take some time depending on the chemistry.
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THAT double standard will always exist, but the fact is sleeping with a guy on the first or the twenty-first date won't matter to him if he likes you...Men are weak that way
 ...Games like holding out to keep the challenge alive seem kind of desperate to me...If the decision to knock boots on the first date comes "expectation free", the day after should not be a problem,,,,,no matter how he reacts ...And hey, why would any woman want to date a guy with double standards?... Don't we deserve better than that? ...
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lots of old ways each them self did not create, that shall soon change, and all will live in pleasure and with no lacking...
for the gods command all to be free. think anybody would buy that... hell no... even though it says it in the holy book, that created such emotional collective energy on earth that makes people "feel" those ways... as emotiopns add together in the "air"... creating a "stifling" emotional climate... once we set the right emotional collective energy of the whole earth, back to what it is supposed to be... wa lah... none will "feel" the same ways... and double standards comes first, from first at an early age, being torn between the wants of the mind, and the emotions of the body... people who do it don't really mean to... it's just learned habit from bad childhood emotional climate and mentoring. such was created by first "belief's' by many many many many things were "unholy"... but in the garden of eden, back to the genesis, where we have arrived now, they were not ashamed of their nakedness... nor did they "hide" from 'god'... or so than think such was 'evil'.... that we gonna change... hotdiggitydog shazam... about time. now redmist will finally have his cake and eat it to, and no one will dare call it unholy... as the notion of unholy shall soon be "erased" for good. for ever. unholy. terminated. anyhow peace |
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Edited by
Happiness2U
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Mon 01/12/15 08:37 AM
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Damn those self respecting women...
So many unavailable with 10 foot poles... |
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As far as sex on the first date goes, I'm pretty happy with being a slave to that particular social convention. If you can't wait 'til the third date, then it's not dating you're after. I like to actually LIKE a woman before I have sex with her - some of the funnest times I've had is when one of us tells an inside joke in the middle of... things... and we both bust up laughing.
It makes women jiggle in interesting ways. Which is probably why poetry was so popular back then. You can feel the anguish, the torment in each poem. Milton, for example, was always harping on about nymphs.
I've always felt his description of Eve was... profoundly lacking in important details. |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Mon 01/12/15 08:15 AM
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if two want it, it's good,
it two don't, it ain't. vbut hey lets face it... it has been the self declared holy, that have been harping, nagging, cowing, inducing guilt, trying to control the behavior of all those they didn't deem "holy"... not the other way around... so turnabout is fair play... for all must feel what they dosed out... why it said not to judge others... or one self will be judged in return. so, now the "judgement"... hehehe... don't worry, wont be as bad as ya thought it would be... you can take it, if the unholy could take it... so can the "holy"... now the "unholy", get to make the rules, and put the pressure on the holy... to learn. to teach. to evolve. to ascend. so we can get rid of this hellish atmosphere of restrictions deemed as holy. |
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yeah,why do they have to be so mean to themselves by not hooking up with you? What a Travesty!
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Misty, you really must read my latest book " Johning for Dummies".
In it is a section on outplaying the playas. Never pay the full fee up front. 40% at most. Balance paid after transaction, or 2 minutes. Whichever is last. Do I gotta learn you everything??? |
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I'm through with giving free GOOD advice.
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I'm guessing this rule was invented in the Christian era. Men must've really suffered back then. The pagan era was much more fun and interesting. The Pagans used to do things with candles you know, that's why we have candles on Birthday cakes. |
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I'm guessing this rule was invented in the Christian era. Men must've really suffered back then. The pagan era was much more fun and interesting. The Pagans used to do things with candles you know, that's why we have candles on Birthday cakes. And they're not those little twigs either... |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Mon 01/12/15 11:37 AM
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...and stds, and pregnancy, and the vulnerable, and dangerous position with someone they dont know very well. You do realise the difference between men and womens biggest fear on a first date, yes? men: She wont look like her pic. women: He will kill her. So lots more to think about really than the stigma of being considered tawdry. I'd say there;s a fair margin of difference there in the degree of intensity for things to worry about. telling. but I also think that misty is playing again, and I also agree that the morality his eschews is probably judeo-christian related. And it was probably written by men (as I stated). Reasons? Probably a lot of what you have said...aside from the typical male habit of demanding loyalty due to their competitive natures, fidelity also is best for the family unit and more sanitary. <---- important stuff for nomads living in tents in the desert |
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