Just started here about a month ago... Even though it says on my profile I'm interested in more then just a sexual encounter, about 30-45% of the men who message me are saying extremely disgusting things to me for a first message. There is no "hi" or "how are you?" It all goes straight to something nasty...
*** warning ***
Example-and I quote this guy who was 52 (I'm 18): why don't you come sit on my face so I can lick that ***....
^^^^^ excuse me?! Do I know you? *delete and block*
Why do guys here do that?!?! It's so gross!

They do it simply because they can, with no consequence.
Like little kids reaching in the cookie jar when mommy isn't looking.

Welcome to the internet.

Just ignore and i think you can report it so it doesn't happen to others then delete them.
Here's hoping you have better experiences.

It's cheap thrills because they are hiding behind a computer.But it's not only men,some women send those messages too

I am a happily married (to a man) bi female, 50 years of age, and although my profile says searching for a woman, I get tons of messages from guys. No big deal, I love to chat and am willing to talk to them, but like you said.. where is the "hi" or "Hello" or "How are you" It's seems to only be "hey baby" or "hey sexy" or "oh, so you like to eat #####, why don't you try sucking my ####." and now you know why they are here on the sites... they are 40 year old virgins, leaving in their mothers basement, masturbating to your dressed picture. sad, but true.

RT bashajones
Welcome to the Internet

Other people have said previously, you meet a better class of people on thr forums ... Hope to see you participating more ...

Artist rendition of one of those 'women'.

As Karmalite says, come to the forums, there are a lot of nice people there

And for those messages, we all get such things. Delete them and don�t let them to discourage you. Besides, oxes are oxes and humans are humans, aren�t they?

You are probably getting more than your fair share because you are young, beautiful and have a few provocative pictures in your profile...Some men are so thickheaded they think showing a little cleavage is code for "talk dirty to me baby"....Just report them and move on...There are more nice than not nice men here...

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Maybe they want to find out if you are sexually compatible.

Welcome to Mingle2. Not all men are like that. Try to learn to ignore the crap because you'll run into crap the rest of you life.