Can I ask you the same question?
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when? a few days later or weeks? :) If he's really into you probably the next day...although he might play the "make her wait" game and it could take 2 or 3. A couple weeks is too long |
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By calling again...
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If they were as great together as you say they are, and he actually loved her, he wouldn't have done it in the first place. When someone is actually in love, they wouldn't even consider cheating
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Southeast WI talk...
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Lets get our own "local chat" going...
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4 days a week is not pushy, but you do need time apart IMO once in a while. Its good to have a guys/girls night out once a week or so
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Listen, if there is hot and heavy kissing you at least have a starting point. It provides information. Now I will easily concede in the long run that can change... but c'mon. This woulda been useful info for our OP here! You are both right, if I would of took your advice and tried to kiss her during the "eye contact" time I mentioned earlier I would of avoided all of this BS I am going through, or maybe thats what she wanted and something would of worked out...No way of knowing anymore, hindsight is always 20/20 |
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Mage... no matter what just kiss the girl by the third date so you know if there are sparks. okay? Like THAT'S gonna prove anything. It will show if there are sparks... like I said. Then they say "this is happeneing too fast!" like the topic says, WHY ARE WOMEN SO CONFUSING!!! |
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Where did you meet her?
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Funny no one has said "the bar". I'm so sick of people telling me thats where I need to go to find a woman...
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Of course. It's just not worth putting your emotions out there for someone who just won't be receptive to them. It sucks to say, but you gotta approach most relationships as if you're in a business meeting- save the kissy-kissy emotional lovey-dovey crap for much later. Thats what I was doing in a way, and it backfired. |
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Thats hitting the nail on the head...
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Where did you meet her?
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Tell us where you have met your gf/bf's
where I met some of my ex's -one worked at a gas station -one worked at my bank -one was a blind date -one was a friends ex (oops) -one lived across the street from me |
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In short, she DOESN'T know what she wants. She'd be a little more up front her intentions with you, whether she had any interest in being with you or not. In short, she jerked you around up until you went somewhere she obviously wasn't willing to go, however innocent that may be. Your best course of action is to just leave her to hew own devices and go find someone else... preferably someone not nearly as flaky or as indecisive. That seems to be the re-accurring advice I am getting...hard to just let go of someone you have feelings for though |
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I'll take 2
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Just call me Doctor luvvvvvvvv!!! Ha ha ha ha! I think you should switch careers |
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Would you still do the activity if it was her kids? Not much difference, really. I just don't know if its the right thing to do-her parents didn't do anything wrong, so why wouldn't I still talk to them. I can honestly say I would not hang out with them to try to stay close to her. |
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I had plans to go to the auto show with her parents this weekend, do I still go? Like I said, I have alot of fun with them... No. Reason? |
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Just wondering.....
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Its always easier to see it from the other side. Most everyone has BEEN ina relationship, so they like to share what they do know.
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-good things come to those who wait This is only partial... Good things come to those who wait as they are left behind by those that DO. I had plans to go to the auto show with her parents this weekend, do I still go? Like I said, I have alot of fun with them... |
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-good things come to those who wait
-Love don't come easy -fight for what you believe in -women just want a nice guy ALL LIES! -love stinks TRUTH |
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