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I love all the different perspectives on this...
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I'm guessing you posted this for other perspectives.... and here we all are!  Her actions are speaking loud and clear. Kissing is not at all in the same league as sex. But really, if she wanted you to kiss her, she'd have let you know... and you wouldn't be Monday morning quarterbacking this right now. Personally, I prefer to initiate a kiss just to let the guy know I'm interested and let them take it from there... but that's just me. No kissing says a lot. No hand holding. No cuddling.... And again, if I was going to introduce a guy to my family..... no way would it be a guy I was interested in having a relationship with. It would be a friend, only friend, or a guy I was already in a relationship with. You've given her a week. You spent every day together for five weeks. What gives? Its been a long time since I met someone I felt this way about, so I guess I'm not in a hurry to just give up after a week. One of 3 things could happen to make this better for me... -she would call and say she's not sure, not in a hurry, but lets keep hanging out -she would call and plain tell me to leave her alone -she could call and say she just wants to be friends |
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 do you prefer grapes or cheese with your whine? be seeing you Thanks for the advice |
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Your gonna make me cry lol! I don't mean to make you cry. But think about it.... would you not call her back if you were upset? No.... true friends talk. At least text back and say, I'm sorry, I'm upset, I need some time. And if there was romance, it would have sparked tension or at least a french kiss, right? Did you keep her physically away? Did you cuddle while watching movies? As much as I hate to admit it, your making alot of sense... Everyone tells me to give her time, or space, or wait for a call. It has only been a week, should I wait longer for a call or should I attempt to call her 1 more time before I put this to rest? The last few guys she has been with (her words) "we in a hurry to get down my pants". I was not pushing her away physically, but making an honest effort to show her thats not what I was after. We would sit close together watching movies, the occasional hand on the shoulder, that kind of thing, but not full-blown cuddling... There was one time when I was dropping her off at home at night, we were saying our goodnights, etc, and there was a short look into eachothers eyes, and all I thought was "do I try to kiss her?". With her past relationships I thought I would rather her make the move though...maybe I should of went for it. |
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Mage - did you not read the instructions that came in the box (just kidding) That would be a big book |
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Yes, but here is the thing. If I meet a person and I just want to be friends... I would introduce them to everyone, no hesitation. But if I was interested in them romantically.... I'd hestitate. And wait. And I'd be at LEAST kissing the guy. Her behavior spoke of something more... but the lack of intimacy shows no spark. You are the friend. If she wanted something more or even actually valued your friendship, she'd have called you back by now. Your gonna make me cry lol! |
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she is a lucky woman and does not know it yet. I hope she comes around. Thats what her mom told me! |
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 if it's been a few days and she hasn't called back sorry she's just not into you She was until I told her how I felt, thats what is confusing me the most...She wa going to take ME to dinner on v-day (her idea) until this happened. |
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Oh. 'Nuff said. Honestly, from my personal viewpoint, I'm not going to spend every day with a guy and not at least kiss him for five weeks if I was interested in any sort of romantic thing with him. Nor would I let him meet my parents. I think she just wanted to be friends. Sadly, I'd let it go. If she comes back to you with an explanation and an apology, take it from there. But her response was loud and clear. It was just blank. In this case, no news was not good news. I met her grandpa too lol. And one day she wnated me to come to her work so she could introduce me to the people she works with! I could go on and on and on!!! |
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is she someone you want to try to work things out with? you know sometimes the effort put into repairing realtionships does not give you the comfort you are seeking. I would love to work things out...I would give all the time in the world if I knew something good would come of it. |
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i am sure she has issues you are not aware of, for someone to go from hot to cold like that to have some real issues, it probly has nothing to do with you, she was coming from a bad relationship and was not able to handle moving forward, don't take it to personally, have you tried to get back in touch with her and let her know how you feel? she may have just needed some time to sort things through. A few days after I told her I called her (she did not answer) and left a voicemail asking her if she wanted to meet for lunch. She did not call back, and hasn't since. Its only been about a week since this happened, but i don't know how long to wait. I wanted to tell her that I would rather be "just friends" than not talk to her at all, but I have to get a hold of her to say it! I know its a matter of time until I see her again because we know alot of the same people |
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Should I wait? keep trying? like I said, I am confused! I became good friends with her parents and liked hanging out with them, but not sure if I should now?
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Here is my story...A little over a month ago I went out with a girl (new years eve) and had dinner, drinks, etc. I was out with her a few times before that, but this was more like our first date. Since new years we have spent almost every day together, done everything from dinners, movies, shopping, hanging out with parents, bars, sitting at home watching movies or tv together, etc, etc. She said in the beginning she was not in a hurry to be in a relationship which I could understand because she just got out of one with an asshole...
I respected that, and never suggested that we get serious, she stayed at my house a few nights but nothing happened, and I never pursued more than a hug at the end of the night. about a week ago I couldnt hold in in anymore and told her how i felt, not using the "L" word, but hinting that it might be going there. She got mad at me for some reason and will not talk to me since? What did I do wrong? We went from being together everyday, doing everything together, having in-depth conversations that only bf/gf's would have, to not talking at all because I wanted to have a relationship? I am confused! any thoughts??? |
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Thank you!
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My first shot at a dating site...
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