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Topic: another question for the guys..
daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:00 PM
K guys.. I'm wondering what happens after meeting for coffee if... it went well and you re interested? How do you show it?

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:02 PM
By calling again...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 02/20/09 02:03 PM
By calling again... I agree

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:04 PM
when? a few days later or weeks? :)

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Fri 02/20/09 02:04 PM
call again...ask for a second date.

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:05 PM
when? a few days later or weeks? :) If he's really into you probably the next day...although he might play the "make her wait" game and it could take 2 or 3. A couple weeks is too long

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Fri 02/20/09 02:05 PM
when? a few days later or weeks? :) I'll usually want to let her know I had a good time and will call again with in 48 hours

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:06 PM
Can I ask you the same question?

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Fri 02/20/09 02:07 PM
Is "coffee" code for sex?

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:08 PM
good to know. it seems like a simple question but at times after meeting a gut i would think all went well but yet never a call back..

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:09 PM
i usually let the guy know at the end of the meeting by saying something like, it would be fun to do this again.

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:10 PM
I like it when the girl beats me to the punch though...and if you call him first and he doesnt instantly want to hang out then there is probably nothing there

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:10 PM
Is "coffee" code for sex? is it? i didnt think so!

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:11 PM
i usually let the guy know at the end of the meeting by saying something like, it would be fun to do this again. alot of girls say that just to be nice, but turns out they didnt mean it

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:12 PM
I like it when the girl beats me to the punch though...and if you call him first and he doesnt instantly want to hang out then there is probably nothing there i get the lets just be friends and see what happens... what does that mean?

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:13 PM
i usually let the guy know at the end of the meeting by saying something like, it would be fun to do this again. alot of girls say that just to be nice, but turns out they didnt mean it i mean it when i say it.. if im not interested i dont suggest going out again

940north Joined Thu 08/30/07 Posts: 4	Fri 02/20/09 02:13 PM
hi daylia! here's one for you. how would a man let a woman know he cares about her in a "more than just friends" way without scaring her off?

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Fri 02/20/09 02:14 PM
Is "coffee" code for sex? No but 'grinding the beans' is.

mage2210 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 217	Fri 02/20/09 02:14 PM
i get the lets just be friends and see what happens... what does that mean? Ive heard that plenty of times...just a nice way of saying "I'm not interested"

daylia Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 20	Fri 02/20/09 02:18 PM
hi daylia! here's one for you. how would a man let a woman know he cares about her in a "more than just friends" way without scaring her off? i think you just have to be honest.. it depends on the woman, i dont scare easily so i would say just let her know and if she does get scared maybe she s not the one?