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Thu 04/30/09 10:53 PM
Shields... you'll probably avoid an ass kicking if you refrain from holding hands and tongue mingling...


Dude... you are way over thinking this... lol

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Thu 04/30/09 10:51 PM


I live in the Coachella Valley, California...

Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay.

For reals?


For Reals... Way lots... I am cool with it, but here it is often ASSUMED that when 2 men are with each other they are a couple.

But it doesn't bother me... shrug

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Thu 04/30/09 10:32 PM
WAIT! LOL...





What are we arguing about???

Just up and leave... some of you are funny...


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Thu 04/30/09 10:28 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Thu 04/30/09 10:31 PM
Honestly dude... Just be a friend... It's our society that labels "affection" in such Narrow terms that two men can't hang out without appearing gay.

My friends and I are very close. We go out and do things ... sometimes just two of us... It's cool. You're friends.

I live in the Coachella Valley, California...

Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay.

You can't let what others may think stand between you an friendship. You will miss out on far too much.

Unless of course you are harboring some latent fears that you might want his pink pole...

But if that is not the case... ASK YOUR FRIEND TO GO FISHING

"Hey man... thinking about going fishing next week... Wanna come?Just fishing and drinking... c'mon man!"

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Wed 04/29/09 09:49 AM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/29/09 09:49 AM

I have been with my ex boyfriend for 3 years. He got a job in Houston and told me before he left that I was not physically attractive anymore. I love him so much that I want him back. What can I do?


Sweety, you are physically attractive.

If you are not physically attractive to HIM, well, that can happen, but if that's all he was there for that was just his lame ass way of saying he wants to break up and couldn't come up with anything better.

Hit the gym and go out. Put on the make up and get you hair did. Look in the mirror and See you are beautiful.

When you see that beautiful gal in the mirror, you will see he is wrong.

The best revenge is living well.

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Wed 04/29/09 09:42 AM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/29/09 09:43 AM

I have nowhere else to post this so I mind as well just let it out on here. I moved down the hall to my friend's ex-gf (not because of her, because he lived there at the time) and became really, really good friends with her but the last week or so she has completely blown me off and ignored me like I don't exist. Her friends still call me but I haven't heard from her in forever and we used to talk every day or see each other every day. I don't know what happened. I kicked my roommate out but I had every reason to and she thought he was disgusting anyway. I guess it's worth mentioning that this girl and I relate like I have with no one else and are on the same level so (and I won't even get into her killer looks) so I totally fell in love with her. Maybe she figured it out(?), maybe she's just even more stuck up than I thought she was but something has seriously changed and I don't know what it is. This woman was my best friend. What would make her completely and utterly act as if I'm the scum of the earth??? I rarely admit this but I'm seriously hurt and it's her friendship I miss most, not my attraction to her


Sometimes we react to things we hear in a bad way. Did she talk to your friend about you? She IS you friends ex... did some one say something about you that she is taking out of context? Did she find another guy and feels uncomfortable talking to you? Despite what we hear around Mingle sometimes. Nobody turns off friendship like it wasn't there.

There is something in her head. The only way you are going to know is to respectfully ask her.

Effort my young brotha!!

PS... You aint never gonna tap it til you talk to her. Unless you get her really drunk and.... well... that's a different thread.

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Wed 04/29/09 09:36 AM
Agreed... I am a very focused person. I put everything into whatever I try for.

This is kicking my butt... lol

Powerpet... Just don't get too freaked out or emotional, what is going to happen is going to happen. Please don't get obsessed. It will kill not only your friendship, but your heart.

flowers flowers drinks flowers flowers

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Wed 04/29/09 09:12 AM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Wed 04/29/09 09:12 AM


Why are they getting larger? He already told you no. You are fantasizing about the "what if". Stop it.

You control your thoughts. Be realistic. You are going to lose a friend, and fast, if you don't grow up.


There are no truer words than this... for your own sake... listen flowerforyou


God.... Wouldn't it be nice if you could just turn love on and off light a f**king light switch!

Look... You feel the way you feel and that is that. You made that clear to him and he declined. It will hurt, and yes I have been there, but you have to suck it up and be friends.

If he is still your best friend after you told him, that is a good thing. A lot of guys and gals would feel uncomfortable at this point.

There isn't anything you can do, but continue going and let him see that you are still his friend despite the feelings.

It's a painful place to be in.

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Wed 04/29/09 09:04 AM
I would only say that was true if there was no real love to begin with.

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Wed 04/29/09 09:02 AM
Isabel

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Tue 04/28/09 06:40 PM
Please don't go...

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Tue 04/28/09 02:07 PM
How much time is too little
how much does it take
to know a heart is open again
recovered from a break

One finds it hard to enter
hard they find to accept
for they carry time themselves
To heavy to take the step

The risk of time is it always flows
a day older every day
We lose a word as time go by
And then it gets harder to say

How much time is too much time?
when does the heart give in
when do you say it's just too much
again into time's water to swim.

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Tue 04/28/09 12:30 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Tue 04/28/09 12:30 PM
Yeah... kinda silly...


It's not even really a Texas thread LMAO

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Tue 04/28/09 12:02 PM
Wow... this actually brought tears to me eyes. Reminders are good.ohwell

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Mon 04/27/09 07:15 PM




He who? spock


okay, she...lol; this is the God Bless Texas thread, yes? laugh

Hehehe he is talking about the state blushing blushing bigsmile


i guess nobody got it ~ i meant when God is done blessing texas...can God come bless maryland ...oh well, that's what i get for poking my head in here! :tongue:


Well if you're in MA, sweety, he already blessed it.

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Mon 04/27/09 06:56 PM
He who? spock

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Mon 04/27/09 06:51 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Mon 04/27/09 06:52 PM

I know people in Texas, does that count?smokin


That's kinda the point... We want to :banana: know some people in Texas:banana:

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Mon 04/27/09 06:43 PM
Yes... Every moment I'm not with her. :cry:

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Mon 04/27/09 06:41 PM
HELL NO!

Any man that is that way is not a man.

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Mon 04/27/09 06:40 PM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Mon 04/27/09 06:40 PM
Does love die??? NO!!!
Do Stars die??? Well... yes...
Do Cats die... Yes...

Where was I going with this????


Any way.. It will only die if you let it...

I say.... If they feel love... they might come...

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