Pagan is such a wide term that I usually just tell people I have Wiccan based faith. It makes more sense to people who are too ignorant to understand.

That, and it makes the Christians twitch because they have a "witch" in their midsts ;)

That absolutely made my day

I do not think so, and if they did I have not heard of them. It would be really helpful considering that most of the people I talk to will not even consider me because I am pagan and not a fru-fru church going lady

I was not knocking you or older women. I am just sick of turning on Bravo and hearing the snippet of Millionare Matchmaker that my friends want to watch and hear how older men will only date younger women.

And having sex with a younger man is not all that bad I know. Nothing like an 18 year old that can go for hours to cheer someone up.

As a younger woman who at one point thought about dating an older man, I have been pondering this subject for a while. Grant it, I know there are advantaged to dating older men, one of them being experience. However, the only older men that seem interested in seeing me are the ones that are, shall we say, not very knowledgeable about how to get a younger woman and expect me to fall into their laps if they offer me money. I know I am not the most attractive woman on the street, but I do have standards. I decided to post this little bit of advice for some of you men out there that want a younger woman and have no idea what to do about it.

First of all, looks are in fact a big thing to younger women. We would not mind having someone who is 20 to 30 years older than we are if they look amazing for his age. If a man has a beer gut, bad hair, and horrid looking teeth, we are not going to want to go out with you on the town. Bad hair does not mean bald or balding, just horrid looking.

Secondly, try to get into some of the recent culture. There is nothing that kills a date more than not having anything in common to talk about. Do not think about how you might get laid but actually showing her a good time and building a relationship so you will not mind having a female around more than the time it takes you to have sex and want to throw her out. Rather, mention a recent movie you saw a preview for you might like or see if you can get a piece of news she might know and want to talk about. If you can keep up with the girl in conversation and comment on some of the movies and activities that she like to do, you might end up with a second date.

Third, money is not everything. Yes, we would love to have the man that has the ability to take us out on the town, buy us pretty things, and support us in a way we like instead of just surviving. However, there is a way you can over-do it. Taking us out to the most expensive place in town and talking about your 5 villas is not the best way to make friends.

And the last bit of advice I leave with you, don’t talk or think about just yourself. Ask her what her interests are, what she wants to do in her life, what she might like to do if she ever had the chance to go on a trip. You would be surprised how many women would go with someone on a second date if they had the chance to talk about what she wanted.

Hope this helps some.

Labyrinth

So, while I was sitting in the hospital waiting for the client to finish visiting his wife so I can take him home, I decide to log onto World of Warcraft and PvP a little bit to relieve my stress.

What is it about Alliance that makes them unable to do battlegrounds successfully? I do not mean like "Oh we have some many clothies against so many people who are plate wearing pallys" I am talking "Everyone but the smart mage (aka me) run to the Horde base to get the flag so we can see who has the honor of being first to hold it."

WTF mate ok? No that is NOT how you ****ing PvP little 16 year old kids who have nothing better to do on a Saturday afternoon than screw up someone else trying to have a good time.

I know I know I am not sounding the most pleasant at the moment, but when you have been working 8 days straight for 24 hours and will not get off for a couple more days, strategy type situations are the best thing for you to do to get your mind off the current stress you are having.

Or I could just be whiny because I am playing Ally with the family and need to say screw you going back to Horde.