Addicts always put the blame on other people. Anything to keep the attention off of them.

You look more like a care bear than a pookey.

Kristi

Because it can get "complicated" and each person has their own boundaries, my theory is "don't do anything that you wouldn't do with your partner right there next to you."

**Keep in mind though that we're talking about "normal" people though. There are some psychotic exceptions.

Sometimes things aren't always what they seem. Its like you're looking for someone to NOT like you on purpose so that you can be right. If you approach someone and automatically assume that you know they aren't going to like you then people sense that. You have a very negative outlook on life and the people in it. Being angry will not help; will only make things worse.

~Kristi

Hi sweetie. FYI, beware of the forums...they can get pretty intense in many ways but sometimes they are just fun to read and watch peoples reactions. lol

Kristi

touche...I'm sorry.

~Kristi

Is that what your cats are telling you?

Its an extremely horrible thing when you're in a relationship where one party is addicted to porn. Very damaging and painful. You can like sex (even a lot) and still not be addicted to porn. An addict will spend all their time doing it, hiding it and spend unreasonable amounts of money to purchase it. All the while they pretend its not a problem and watch their life crumble around them. Its nutz just like alcoholism.

Your choices are...

1. Get on anti-depressants and tell yourself it will get better

2. Get out and move on!

3. Try as hard as you can to get the person to get help (If they don't then go back to number 1 or 2)

~Kristi

And where is this at? We should all go there and stone their asses! Dammit!

K

Those MF's should die! I'll spend a lifetime trying to figure out why some adults (cops, parents, teachers) all take advantage of children and animals. I have 3 rescued animals and in the next few years I'll be working on my first adopted child (eventhough I can have my own). I'll spend my life cleaning up other people's messes that they inflict on the innocent and its crippling to know this and then watch that video.

SOME PEOPLE NEED TO WAKE THE F*CK UP AND REALIZE THAT THEY'RE AREN'T SOLVING PROBLEMS...THEY ARE THE PROBLEM!

Sorry for venting and E-yelling at everyone...
Kristi

OH my Mother Fing God! Blood boiling doesn't even describe what I'm feeling after watching that video! My heart is racing so fast and my eyes are getting teary with anger and frustration! I'm stunned and speachless!

Regretfully,
Kristi

My ex husband is in the Marines and he's freakin hot as hell. I think the Marines are bad ass but they're also crazy! Like the previous ladies, decisions regarding military and war should be made for reasons other than how you'll look. But damn I love a man in uniform!

~Kristi

You know I'm actually turned off by people that made reference to their job status in their profile name...like Dr So and So or Mr. Movie Director. And then people complain about only having gold diggers interested in them. HELLO, Wake up!

~Kristi

Thats very beautiful and thank you for sharing it. I too feel that same need and its a dull pain unlike any other. Good luck to you.

~Kristi

Well you said it yourself. Are you looking for a quality person or someone thats not? If you choose quality than it doesn't matter if you lose the others. If you really want the "other" kind of attention than you should leave it as is. But no respectable girl will respond to that name. At least none that I know of.

Good luck!

Looks good!

Heck NO! That was amazing and as my jaw drops to the floor, I cannot come up with words to describe its beauty. Great job but sorry, no name.

~Kristi

Accountability is something they need to do for themselves and has nothing to do with you. If they cannot face what they've done then you need to simply move on because unless they make serious changes then it will always continue.

I dealt with the same thing and I had to let go...just like that. There was nothing I could do about it but hurt, finally accept it begin the healing process.

We all have our own demons we have to face; some more than others and each of us deals with them differently. Some do it head on where as some struggle so much through the guilt that they run and hide simply because they cannot face it. To look at it would mean confronting themselves and some people aren't ready to do that.

Try not to let their actions reflect on the kind of person you are. I feel sorry for those that have wronged me because they need help and most will never accept that reality and get it. You can't change people but it doesn't mean you must wish ill will on them either. You do whatever it takes to help you look at yourself in the mirror each day. I'm content with myself because I know that I didn't wrong anyone out of revenge.

"You can either be apart of or apart from"

~K

I agree with shoesmonkey. You just come right out and say exactly that. Hopefully she's not flakey like so many others I've encountered and just simply replies....but politely also.

~K