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Fri 01/23/09 07:33 PM
Git-mo is still open, they just aren't taking any more reservations. He signed an order to close it but no one wants the criminals so for the time being it's still there.

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Fri 01/23/09 07:29 PM
Edited by Nikitaa on Fri 01/23/09 07:30 PM


I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do.

I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7.
Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big.



I never heard anyone say youth and attractiveness was a burden, I'll manage it, somehow. shades What you described sounds like regular life, I can take it.


Quite modest, aren't we? whoa


Isn't false modesty a sin? I call it confidence and it's even more attractive in a man.

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Fri 01/23/09 07:27 PM
Depends on the guys hotness rating, he'd need at least a 7 unless I've had too many drinks then he'd need a 9. When I get drunk men start looking ugly, so then I go for the women.

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Fri 01/23/09 07:20 PM


OH OH, you should also find yourself a "Nice Guy". We currently have a wide selection for you to choose from! Just check out the daily nice guy threads to browse!

(hey if we don't get them hooked up, the threads will never stop)


I prefer nice guys so point the way. I've more than had my fill of immature assholes on campus and at work.

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Fri 01/23/09 07:19 PM

turn off IM

communicate via email only at first until it is obvious that it will be fun to chat....

works for me.

interact on the forums to get to know
how people think and if they have any
tact, manners, wit or spark...

flowerforyou

IM off, check
interact on the forums, check
Wit and charm, pending further investigation



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Fri 01/23/09 07:16 PM

I think you read their profile and if they don't invest enough to start a conversation to have something to talk about I would not take them seriously.

If someone has sent you a generic let's chat and nothing more is like throwing a bucket of bait in the pond and hoping you snag a fish. Hardly a huge compliment but maybe they are shy.

If you are fortuneate enough to get a greeting it is only good manners to respond with a breif hello and maybe a remark about something you think is a mutual interest. Not talking about a lengthy life story just a couple of sentences.

Then follow up with the ones that interest you most. The longer you wait between messages the ones who are not in the running will get the message.



I'll try your way as long as they send something more than a, lets chat, email. If the guy takes the time to think about his message then I do think it's polite to respond. For some reason I got the thought in my head all messages would be long wordy ones. slaphead

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Fri 01/23/09 06:50 PM

Explain this in your profile. It will help some but not all, for some won't even read your profile. Being young and attractive can be a burden sometimes. You will be solicited heavily. You will be insulted unaccordingly. And you will be disrespected. Its up to your discretion on how you handle it. Checking your expectations will help. Best of luck.


You're funny. I never heard anyone say youth and attractiveness was a burden, I'll manage it, somehow. shades What you described sounds like regular life, I can take it. Just trying to get some input on what the norm in on the internet for handling emails.

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Fri 01/23/09 06:00 PM
Woke up, got out of bed, ran a comb across my head.

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Fri 01/23/09 05:56 PM

Just have fun and don't worry so much about things, it's the internet. JMO, I only reply to messages if I'm interested, or know them from the forums.


I know it's just the internet but the people are real and they have real feelings. Some are probably seriously looking for dates or relationships so I don't want to be the mingle2 ice queen.

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Fri 01/23/09 05:53 PM
Didn't RL say he just wanted Obama's liberal policies to fail? I watched the interview and I think you're taking things out of context. RL is far too right winged for my taste, but still, he didn't wish harm on Obama or the country, just on Obama's liberal policies.

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Fri 01/23/09 05:49 PM

Deja vu.

You have the same problem then? What do you do just ignore or send a note?

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Fri 01/23/09 05:39 PM
I'm getting email from guys asking if I want to chat with them. Cool, but the emails don't say anything else and most of their blogs don't say anything else. In a bar men ask to chat and if they're cute then hell yea I chat but here I imagined getting emails with some information about the guy or a witty joke or something.
I don't know how to respond to these messages. I can't just chat with a dozen guys everyday because I do have other things to do. When I tried saying, thanks but I don't think we'd work out, I get the response, how do you know if we don't chat?

I was wondering how the other women of mingle2 handled these messages? Do you just ignore them or send them one note? What if they are posting on the forums is that different?

I want to be polite but I'm not attached to this computer 24/7.
Guys, I already know your ideas but sorry, I can't sleep with every guy who emails. My bed is not that big.

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Fri 01/23/09 04:47 PM
I forgive you and absolve you of all you sins.











(what'd you do anyway, I just arrived)

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Fri 01/23/09 04:37 PM
I was 14 and it was my best friend. I'll never forget her, never. I prefer kissing men but she was awesome.

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Fri 01/23/09 04:34 PM


Full moons make me think of sex.



*gulp*


dont swallow

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Fri 01/23/09 08:43 AM
Full moons make me think of sex.

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Fri 01/23/09 08:37 AM
I don't like those dancing animations on my mingle screen. Maybe they are not real people but I really detest them. Wouldn't be so bad if they had at least one iota of rhythm.

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Fri 01/23/09 08:28 AM
I'd have to say if you were the one who did the murder you should wait a few weeks.