hey I actually have been having concerns going to meet my special
someone. I have the flight and I am set to go. My family also has
concerns. It is nice to see that there are others out there traveling to
meet people. It really puts me at ease. Thanks....Oh and I wont forget
the list....

Hey it looks like he is realizing what he missed. Your right,messing in
someones marriage is not cool and you are obviously a respectable woman.
I would tell him what you think. Be honest and let him know what he
lost. Never lower your standards, you'll find the one that knows your
worth more than the world.

Congrats

Coming from a similar situation I have to say that wanting a
relationship with sex is not unreasonable. It is a natural response to
not only fill that need but to have a connection with a person on a
deeper emotional level. There is nothing more special than allowing your
vulnerabilites to show to another and still be loved. It sounds to me
your ex has probably been having issues for a long time. Maybe she is
going through a mid life crisis or something because I can't understand
why she wouldn't want that connection with you especially after the
length of time you have been together. I agree with Kojak, counseling
can help get to those issues underneath those feelings.

Yeah Colts, Payton Manning is one hottie!!