Mines the same as one above.......
I am not looking for a fling thing, please don't send me a pic of your stuff and tell me what you can do..

Please send all your penis pix to Christo...

Please send all your penis pix to Christo...

Why can't people just let a thread die? Just try to keep it going just because? DIE, DIE.

i personally HATE being called cute, hot, "smokin" ... that's all ridiculous to me. i like being called beautiful or something of that nature.

how do you feel ladies?

and guys, can you explain the difference between all these different adjectives from the MALE point of view, and why some are never used?


cute, sexy, gorgeous, hot, smokin, pretty, beautiful... etc

How strong are your instincts when it comes to relationships?

Do you trust them?

How often are they right?

I feel like my life is good
I'm happy for the most part
No one can be 100% happy all the time right?

I was just confronted (and not for the first time) from another member here that told me I seem as though I'm sad.
I've heard this before when others look at my photography or read my writings.

Is it possible that I don't see my true self?

how many of you have dated someone just because you were "bored" ... or lonely.

i just recently found out that a guy i dated a good while back only dated me because nobody better was interested in him and he didn't want to be single. i find this cruel.

i'm just curious how many people have actually done something close to this situation?

who is your favorite hot female charector from any movie its up to you. id have to say hillary swank from million dollar baby, but the ending was sad anyway who would you say give it some thought

from a scale of 1-10 wat do you honestly think of me?

what do u think? are you expecting that a woman would come to talk to you 1st. I don't like that idea still, I feel like I m still a little bit old fashion.

as sad as it is, i guess i've become jaded by all the crap that i've read in my private email in the past.

sure, i shouldn't judge anyone new by what's been done, but it does slant your view, and it does make you wary, and it most certainly makes you selective.

however much a snob it makes me seem, i don't reply to any email that:

- consists of one or two words (e.g. 'wassup', 'hi there' 'ur sexy')

- consists of anything that doesn't remotely sound like english and takes me more than a few minutes to decipher

- consists of anything that tells me my profile has not been read (e.g. hey do you like younger guys? well if you read my profile, you'd see that i'm not here for dating, and don't want ANY guy, young or old)

- consists of anything sexual

- consists of anything that sounds like a guy completing an application for a wife

- is rude, degrading, derogatory and/or spiteful or those who assume they know me, who i am, what i think and feel.

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i used to reply to any email i received as i felt it was polite to do so. unfortunately, there was so much that turned me off, i've decided to make friends only via forum participation and that way i have an insight into the type of character they are. i won't chat up any man in private email any longer.

if the email sounds remotely sincere, i still do reply, indicating as i did above (but much nicer )

That IS it, exactly. I don't even bother sending out first e-mails anymore. Of course, I've been here 2 years and get plenty of people writing to me now, so it's not a problem. But it took awhile, and a certain amount of forum time, to build up a reputation.

And I still won't write to anybody first.



Not to mention formulaic. I think (I hope, anyway) most people can spot a "form" from a mile away.



I think you may be catching some flak because this issue has come up many many times before. The fact is, if you haven't been treated this way before, it's only natural to wonder about the reasoning behind it.

The "don't-reply-to-email" thing is endemic to this site (in my experience, and those of many others who have posted about it -- I'm not saying it's a universal truth, just that it does appear prevalent beyond what I've seen as the "norm" on other sites) -- I'm not sure if there's anything that can be done to change that.

Yes, I am also guilty of whining. My only excuse is that I get soooooooooooo tired of these threads.

Sorry you feel that way. It's just that this topic has been asked so many times, it get's kind of old.

If it bothers you that much that the people you email don't reply, then send them another one and tell them how you feel. Maybe then you will get a response and maybe even a reason as to why they didn't reply to the first one.

haha, if someone wrote to me with either of those lines, i'd know that they didn't bother TO read my profile.

so why would i bother to reply?

1 - patience I have, understanding how people interract on this I didn't.
2 - Of course a smart response was done.
3 - Nobody's whining, I just didn't know. Thanks for the input on what women don't find attractive though, very informative.

First, you've been here for a week. Have a little patience.

Second, did you ask about stuff specific to her profile? Or did you just send out a "form" letter telling her you like her photos and profile? Try humor. Be creative.

Third, Don't whine about it. Most women do not find whining attractive.