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Edited by
CChristo
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Sat 01/17/09 02:38 PM
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OK, Bump to the next topic.
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 Put your seat belt on dude
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people just don't like letting others down I suppose - even I don't respond to some messages if I'm not interested
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The simple answer? Because they know they don't have to reply so they don't waste their time doing it.
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mutual match.....mystifies me!!!!!!!
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yeah its kinda rude but thats life.
some people just ain't got the time to weed through the messages they get from guys askin the same questions over and over or sayin the same thing. ya know? just brush it off. someone once told me that online dating is a weeding process. you gotta go through alot of crap to find the good stuff. |
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people just don't like letting others down I suppose - even I don't respond to some messages if I'm not interested
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Edited by
Unknow
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Sat 01/17/09 02:00 PM
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Put your seat belt on dude
First, you've been here for a week. Have a little patience. Second, did you ask about stuff specific to her profile? Or did you just send out a "form" letter telling her you like her photos and profile? Try humor. Be creative. Third, Don't whine about it. Most women do not find whining attractive. |
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I smell.............sniff.....sniffffff
sniffffffffffffffffffffffffffff......... a "nice guy" thread............. 
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This is the internet...not real life
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Edited by
CChristo
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Sat 01/17/09 02:19 PM
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Put your seat belt on dude
First, you've been here for a week. Have a little patience. Second, did you ask about stuff specific to her profile? Or did you just send out a "form" letter telling her you like her photos and profile? Try humor. Be creative. Third, Don't whine about it. Most women do not find whining attractive. . |
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Put your seat belt on dude
First, you've been here for a week. Have a little patience. Second, did you ask about stuff specific to her profile? Or did you just send out a "form" letter telling her you like her photos and profile? Try humor. Be creative. Third, Don't whine about it. Most women do not find whining attractive. First ~ it's not a question of being impatient - I see ignoring someone's interest completely as dismissive and rude, not to mention the fact that I'm not in a hurry, I'm just trying to figure out the 'norm'. That seems to be it. Second ~ I'm a pretty articulate guy, I use my own words to approach, I've been around, and form emails seem childish. Third ~ I'm not whining. The headline of the post is Mingle mysteries and peeves; as I said earlier I've never had people do that to me, so wanted to see other people's input. ** Thanks for your input, I qualified your answer because you obviously gathered the wrong impression about where I was coming from. Have a great day ... No you couched it as gathering input, but ya whined dude... Let's have an informal poll. All those that say he's whining say Yea. All who disagree say nay |
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Edited by
CChristo
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Sat 01/17/09 02:16 PM
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Put your seat belt on dude
First, you've been here for a week. Have a little patience. Second, did you ask about stuff specific to her profile? Or did you just send out a "form" letter telling her you like her photos and profile? Try humor. Be creative. Third, Don't whine about it. Most women do not find whining attractive. 1 - patience I have, understanding how people interract on this I didn't. 2 - Of course a smart response was done. 3 - Nobody's whining, I just didn't know. Thanks for the input on what women don't find attractive though, very informative. |
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Edited by
papersmile
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Sat 01/17/09 02:12 PM
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... My mystery here is this: Why is it that about 1% of the women I've sent emails sent to them with 'Hi There's', or 'I like what I read in your profile' even respond ? If you're not interested, ok that's fine, but how about a simple, courteous "Sorry, not interested but thanks" in reply ? In 'real life', I never get that sort of response ... is it because they get approached SO OFTEN by so many men that they just figure, 'yup, just another email from a male'. I don't know. Just seems rude. Anything on here mystify you ? haha, if someone wrote to me with either of those lines, i'd know that they didn't bother TO read my profile. so why would i bother to reply? |
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 it's only "the cyber world" in the whole scope of things it isn't important at all...be seeing you
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Wondering who is whining here, the one not getting answers to his emails or the ones complaining that he is whining.
My answer to your poll YEA to everyone here (that includes me) |
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... My mystery here is this: Why is it that about 1% of the women I've sent emails sent to them with 'Hi There's', or 'I like what I read in your profile' even respond ? If you're not interested, ok that's fine, but how about a simple, courteous "Sorry, not interested but thanks" in reply ? In 'real life', I never get that sort of response ... is it because they get approached SO OFTEN by so many men that they just figure, 'yup, just another email from a male'. I don't know. Just seems rude. Anything on here mystify you ? haha, if someone wrote to me with either of those lines, i'd know that they didn't bother TO read my profile. so why would i bother to reply? |
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Wondering who is whining here, the one not getting answers to his emails or the ones complaining that he is whining. My answer to your poll YEA to everyone here (that includes me) Yes, I am also guilty of whining. My only excuse is that I get soooooooooooo tired of these threads. |
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The tutt tutters...
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The tutt tutters... tutters: Refers to a womans breast; usually used in the text of looking at them 
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