Update: My son is doing better. They thru out the DUI, so he just has to deal with the DMV --- and seems to be re-inspired to tackle life!

Why would you be shocked to learn that I considered relocating to my company's top US facility with a promotion, to a place where the grass is still green and there is open space and affordable housing and take a chance on love?

He makes you a priority, not an option.

He gives you his time and attention. He's respectful.

He introduces you to his friends and family.

to name a few...

Beware of the fantasy that gets mixed into the reality....

Let Donald Trump pay for it, sheesh! He's got billions!!!

If it wasn't for fake scammers sending me messages, I wouldn't get any at all.

Aerosmith

To be honest, I am not at all sure what the OP had in mind .. so I answered based on what I *thought* ...

Talking to my significant other about making love - before, during and after - is fine with me.


To TMommy's point -- sexting with a stranger online, bleh! No thanks!

About a year ago, I met someone online and we started talking. We hit it off !

He lives in Ohio and I live in California.

Long story short - I tried to move to Ohio. I thought my sons were ready to fly from the nest, and close to doing so - and that I could transfer with my company to our Ohio location --- half the battle.

Nothing worked out as planned, and eventually we decided to be friends.

It was a lot harder to make it happen than I thought, and very stressful.

In the end, I am still thankful for the time we had together (we met in real life twice) and if I won the lottery - who knows?! ... but,

I do not recommend long distance unless you can easily relocate.

reminds me of Liv Tyler :)

My kids keep me busy some of the time. I try to spend time with them. They are all grown, so it can be tricky.

Aside from that..

I go out with friends from work. I read. I take work home. I watch tv. I cry sometimes. I sleep. I text a friend. I play games on the computer. I go to meet up events.

and recently, I have been dating - with no luck.

music video star

It's basically friends with benefits...



It would never work for me! I don't want to share my man, or date more than one man at the same time. Period.




Good luck - whatever spins your top!

Health, love, peace, freedom, nature, water... to name a few...

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A glass of water?


Interesting...


My rule of thumb - if they look way too hot to be interested in me, I figure they are fake.

If I ask them if they are scammers and they get mad, they are scammers.

If they ask you for money, they are scammers.

If they send a "hi" don't bother responding... they never write back.

If they start out with over the top flattery - I don't take them seriously.

I agree, 9 out of 10 are fake... sadly.

Thank you for that!


OT: I don't mind talking about making love.

I think it's hard to find someone you can really connect with and find long term potential.

In my humble opinion, it isn't so much about how you look or even if you are nice, etc ---- it's how easily you are attracted to others.

For example: I do not care much for sports, but most men are very much into sports. This means, my pool of choices is smaller.

I could accept the fact that they'll spend 90% of their free time watching sports .. but I've been there and done that - and I wasn't happy. I would rather be single. :)

I could accept being with someone who is nice but I don't feel any spark. But... that's not really fair to the other person - so I would rather stay single.

It's hard --- for some of us --- not so much for others. Why? I don't really know.