Naz,

You say these things..that you only want her..and then I see your other
threads talking about other "sexual" things..that makes you a playa..you
should be trying to get at her, not writing stupid things..

Which I did, and got off topic and apologized for.

Wow..gorgeous!

It's all about your kids mama...do it for your children..because your
girls will get in the vicious cycle with you..they will.

I agree catchme, I did get sidetracked, and I will apologize to Foxy, I
apologize.

I did answer her..and told her what to do. The police do not help. Going
to a shelter will, but she has to make the step to do so. Period.

AGREED CHERUB, AGREED.

That's why you won't ever understand Slow.

Well slow I understand that you can't believe it because you are a man,
but it is in fact a truth. Woman and Men are built differently and
handle things differently because of our genetics. Prime example (Please
realize this is a generalization)

Men can have unattached Sex.
Women can't.

That's not a choice. THat's how we are built!

You are also a man slow--BIG DIFFERENCE.

Men have power over woman.

PERIOD.

THEN FEED HIM TO THE GATORS! :P

Slow,

I am going to reiterate the same sentiment as Cherub..they know exactly
how to get to you..they see it. When you start a new relationship, you
tell them everything..because you are excited by the newness of it
all...you let them in on your weaknesses..because these are controlling
men, they use those weaknesses against you..and slowly chip away at the
woman you are..and take you down..it's a horrible thing but it happens.

Slow,

What you have to understand is it's control. It's not something we put
up with. We are pushed down so low, that the control becomes all we know
and believe. It's part of a man's power (BAD MEN OF COURSE). No woman
wants to go through this, but until you can break free of the
power/control..you don't realize what it is you are missing..and that
you actually deserve something better. I honestly didn't believe or see
that, even though I said it..because I didn't have any esteem at ALL.

As a woman who was in a Domestic Violence relationship for two and a
half years, I can tell you that I know exactly what you are going
through, and tell you that I know the amount of control he has over you.

Calling the cops isn't going to help, it won't change him..it will only
anger him.

COntact your local Domestic Violence Advocate. Take your kids, and stay
in a shelter..I know that's a big step, but do it. I left..you can
too..before I left he put a gun to my head. HE WAS A COP.

They will take care of you, do everything for you..move you to another
state, change your name..get you assistance..

Eventually you will stop looking over your shoulder, the most important
thing to do, is to not leave your children in the hands of this
monster..and to let your kids continue the cycle.

I agree slow..but I can tell you she's not going to want to hear it. You
should move on, and only because you seem like a player to me..you can't
have your cake and eat it too..

Naz,

That's not a romantic movie gesture. Maybe standing outside her window
and singing to her would...let's just hope she doesn't call the
police...:P

He is such an amazing and brilliant player..but he let's himself get in
the way of the game..and I agree, his stupidity doesn't need to make
headlines, but for some reason it is...

Thank you--I want it to go away too :(

I agree Sandy--KICK HIM and hard..TO THE CURB!

Doing decent, have a horrible flu..sitting on the couch..hurtin'

BAD IDEA--You have to see them everyday..and when you are at home..there
is NO GETTING AWAY FROM IT..and it will make the fire burn out A LOT
FASTER!

Agreed..I have fallen in Like..which feels like or similarly to
LoVE..however when the newness goes away, so does the