How would you feel, if you post a tread, asking for help, cuz you are
going trough something and your desperate,
and some of us just give you the first advice and then take the tread
and start making jokes and having fun, way off topic?

I don't know but I had to take a look at that and I apologize
for being selfish sometimes and not taking some realy serius tread, with
the respect they deserve,,sorry about that,
and Im saying this because it feels realy horrible
when your asking for real advice and u get some of us taking over the
tread to talk about bull****,,,

We need to stop this and have some respect for some treads that need
serius attention, we may be saving someones life...
you all have helped me when I needed advice.. by giving me serius
feedback,,,,

so please lets all have some respect for others!!!!!!!!

Which I did, and got off topic and apologized for.

I hear ya girl and behind you all the way. A cry for help is that a cry
for help if you can not give advice with out joking around or giving the
type of advice that would help that person then don't give any at all.
For once in your life people read and re-read before you write your
words and hit that send button. You are talking to a real human that is
crying out for help the words she wrote brought tears to my eyes to know
the pain she is going through and then to read the rest of the post I
was beyond myself some of the advice that was giving she is in a real
dangerous sitution have a heart this a human crying for help we treat
our animals better!!

Diva girl you are not the one in no way that did the wrong you yourself
was giving very good sound advice.

We are all guily of this at times, though I try to stay serious in a
help thread. Lets leave the jokes where the jokes belong, when
someoneeds hlp give it if you can, if not simply offer your support.

Diva darlin, you weren't being wrong in the thread, you gave sound
advice and support.

ok i'm sorry, i really just don't understand it.

SORRYYYYYY
SORRYYYY
SORRYYY
SORRYY
SORRY..i'll try and get better at it.

Slow darlin, you wasn't being bad, you were asking questions because you
don't uncerstand, you weren't making jokes or offering silly advice.

i would never joke on something like that, that is way to serious.

and thats why we love ya Slow :) you RAWK!!

Ohh slow ya might be a bit slow understanding why but ya not to slow on
wanting to understand and you were not joking about it.

Smiles to ya :) heck we like ya even if ya are a little slow lol

*geeze now i'm blushing* lol

I decided to stay off the posts for advice. Best thing is to find a few
people who seem to have a little sense and ask them personally.

I decided to stay off the posts for advice. Best thing is to find a few
people who seem to have a little sense and ask them personally.

your so right!!! and Im not olny talking about that one tread
is all of the treads that people ask for serius help, that we need to
have some respect for!!

and please don't get this the wrong way, Im just sorry for getting
carried away sometimes, and like CCP, and Txs. said
we all do it...sometimes and we need to take a look at that,
is realy disrrespecfull and like I said b/f, we may save someone's life
with serius advice,,all of us have realy good advice to give to others,
and who ever post a tread asking for help they should get help...we can
do it, I know we can, because, I have gotten lots of help on this
site!!!!

Yeah I understand Morena what your saying doing that can chass someone
of the site and make them feel like what am I doing this for if this is
going to happen. I tend to find that most people are shy as far as
talking in the forums at first I know I was it was alitle hard to start
out but at the sametime I had an open mind to see things that some of us
wouldn't understand so that is why I hung around and it was the best
thing for me that I did

Sometimes, their problems are serious and should be given a proper
measure of consideration.

Morena, Thank you for bringing this up for the attention that it so
rightfully deserves. I have noticed this ongoing problem and I also am
to blame for I have done it from time to time. I have also been snippy
and rude to alot of people on here, and for that I sincerely do
apologize. You can take this in the form that I am offering, or you can
chuck it out the window, and move on. I do apologize for all of the
rude, selfish, selfrightous remarks that I have made since I have been
here at JSH.This is a very seroius topic as Morena has stated, and it
should be taken that way each and every time advice topics come out
asking for our advice.

Thank you Morena for letting me put in my last opinion until I can cure
my foot in mouth syndrome.

Morena, I too have fallen in that catagory, and I apologize for opening
my mouth when it should have stayed closed... D

Morena,
I agree whole heartedly on this one. I said something very similar in
the past about staying on topic but was ignored it seemed. It seems to
me that we have alot of people that ont only go off topic regularly they
think it is funny to do so. Good luck on your quest to change the others
even when they read a topic that could mean someones life they joke
about it. Take that AA thread as an example how many on here thought it
funny to ask about their virtual court cards. If someone has a problem
and wanted to drink those comment woud push them away from the site and
they might die of accute alcohol poisoning from loking here for help of
friends and getting all that BS instead.

but in the othere hand, we have stupit treads that need to be turned in
to a joke, like that " got a wet***** tread" by vigina_xo who is a
fake,, or the Im horny tread and so on
and the treads that we know are disrrespecfull, and **** like that, so
there are some that need to be turned in to a joke and I will be the
first one there if I could!!!
and you know what Im talking about guys!!!!lol,lol