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Single again can't wait for that person to love me for who i am

I know it's hard when your son/daughter doesn't listen to ur advice. All we want is the best for them and mostly, not to make the same mistakes we parents did. But at that age, we really can't force them to do what we want them to do. They think they know better, they're wiser and mostly, they think we don't understand them and we don't know anything, that we don't want them to have fun or enjoy themselves. 18, 20s,etc etc etc, they're still a baby that needs to explore things on their own, to keep falling and bumping themselves before learning how to crawl then stand up and finally to walk. Yes it is really really hard just to let them do what they want to but it is better for a person to learn things on their own. A lot of mistakes will be done, some teenage girls gets pregnant at a very young age, boys get girls pregnant, drinking booze, smoking, drugs. If only they are robots and will only do things what we tell them to do. That would really make parenting so bloody easy but it's not. This is life. It hurts to see our kids suffer, hurt and wasting their life but as long we gave and give all the help, advices, support, and will always be there for them, we really can't do more than that. The more u stop them from doing what they want, the more they want to do it and will find any ways just to get wat they want and that's mostly not a good thing. Best thing for this stage is communication, explanation why this and that and patience. The best lesson in life is the lesson learned itself. This is my reply because I was once that kind of teenager and just realised how right my family was now that I'm a parent myself.

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Well for me it's simply because they appreciate more, and hey, most think that they're less of playing and more into steady relationship?

It doesn't matter really. I mean in my opinion. as long as it's finished, and ur also emotionally not attached then that's enough.

Well I've always been a hopeless romantic and always tried so hard to have someone to call mine forever. But I learned my lesson. But that doesn't mean I'd give up. I know someone is for me, but if there isn't, I'm fine with it. I got my kids who I love dearly and they love me as much.

everytime I see dads with his kid/s , it always make me smile. U don't, well I don't usually see dads walking alone with their kids. And I grew up raised just by my dad. So,for me, if I'll ever be in a relationship again, I'd definitely choose single dads. Because for me, there's a lot of chance that they'll be more sensitive with a single mums feelings

There's nothing else could be done really. I don't want to sound annoying but it's just because I never tried being cheated before this. It's really just hard to handle. But thanks for the advice. Just to know people who doesn't even know me understands

child support? I think it's better to cut all ties. He obviously doesn't want to have anything with our son. it's easy said than done. Especially wen I did nothing but been faithful and supportive to him. I just wanted to have my own family, even if not with big house or lots of money, but just happy and content, honest relationship. But now I think it's impossible

I'm sorry if this is long but I'll try my best to make it short. I'm a single mum of two kids. 2012, I found out my fianc� was living with someone else and was pregnant as I was. The other woman also found out about me and me being pregnant and was harassed and abused through messages and social networking. Damaged has done, people who knew me read all those insulting and hurting things she posted. But I still have forgiven him inspire of everything. He left her but that didn't mean he was with me, it was like he left both of us to have himself some time. 2013 was a rough time, he didn't helped through my pregnancy, I gave birth and still no visit. He kept giving excuses, I still hoped that one day he'll be with me and my son. Now, our son is turning one next week, I saw his other woman's Facebook with pictures of them. Now I know that he's back with her that's y he haven't messaged nor call for more than a month. I thought I have moved on, but I just don't know how can someone do such thing. I've suffered for him, I've waited for him for more than two years. I was with him the whole time he suffered depression( well not physically only through phone) . I did everything for him. But he kept hurting me. Now, I'm shattered and couldn't think straight . I don't have any friends in London, I just don't have anyone to talk to or cry on. Im sorry for sharing, pain is just too much to handle