Noooo, they are not painful. Only a little, I guess.

Oh, he was enjoying it. That was the uncomfortable part for me.

Say, you know the most uncomfortable I ever get doing my job was when I
had to insert a foley catheter in the penis of a flirting young man.

Now, you are really going to let the gals hate me. I am having trouble
with a few as it is.

Thanks Mitch. And Michael, thanks for your compliment.

So what is your blue ball displaying Michael?

I like my iguana. I took that pic in Aruba.

Oh Mitch...I was not offended by you. I guess, Peachie, Chubby and
Morena are bothered. Just look at their remarks. I guess we should
change the subject and expand the concept.

For you Michael

I was about to say goodbye for good to this wedsite. But but I will say
before I leave: Just know that as a patient you have the right to refuse
treatment, to know what is in your record, what procedures and how they
will be done and who you would like to do them. I have seen so much it
is unbelieveable. But I can see I am not welcome here so I will find
something more constructive to do than to be a bother.

Sure will, Ontario. I thought I would help a little here but I guess no
one really cares as long as their love ones dies and they can sue and
collect some malpractice money.

Hello, D

Hi Peachie and Chubby,
I am not the one you should be concerned about. I am not the one
misrepresenting myself here. I am for real. However, I will use the
information you, peachie, provided on the several discussions you have
opened, to make my conclusions. If I have given you any reason to be
rude to me then I apologise. Nothing on this site is personal to me.
This is entertaining and informative and if I can help someone with
whatever knowledge I have then I have done something good.

So can we start over?

illustrate=draw

Many individuals who play head games end up losing instead of gaining.
Often they realize that they grow to care for the person they are
playing. The pain and mistrust they caused by playing games destroy what
chance they would have had for a meaningful relationship.

Full of awe!= words cant describe

You are right though. Had I taken the time to think instead of acting
when I was angry, I may not have gone to his house. But I would find
another way to teach him a lesson or two. I was falling in love with
him. He made decisions for me by lying to me. He deceived me and my
heart was broken. I just moved from PA to get away from my ex and start
my life over only to meet the same man I left behind. I thought I made a
better choice by picking someone educated, caring and sensitive. I was
so excited. I told him about my ex with tears in my eyes. And thats why
it hurt deeply because he knew his intentions and he knew my greatest
fear...Him!

Buttons,
MD has a little girl my daughter's age and she was there. I went there
but I did so with class. I was not loud and abnoxious. His wife and I
talked for 30 mins all the time he was pacing up and down the house so
nervous. And there were other females. The wife caught him in bed three
months earlier with the same female that called me. She had forgiven
him. So he is one of em who wont change. But nest time he will be more
cautious about who he hurts. He told me he is scared because no one had
come to his house before and I could have been a crazy one with a gun.
He is now concern how is actions could endanger his child.

Buttons,
The girl had to figure out what that number is so that she would have
peace of mind. If she hadnt done that she would always be wondering what
the dude was hiding. Some women who were hurt find it hard to trust the
next guy. Anything suspicious triggers a nerve. Dont ignore the red
flags. Thats what I did with my child's father. I wouldnt go around
calling suspicious numbers but I would certainly keep the info at hand
or have someone else do the calling for me.

If a man cant take you to is house, be suspicious.
If he has to be someone where you cant go the same time each day, be
suspicious.
If a man is never available on the weekend, be suspicious.
If a man cant take his children around you and he is around yours, be
suspicious.
If a man say that he is divorce and wont show you the papers, be
suspicious.

These are only a few of the red flags.

Jean,
I see you understand fully what I am saying. Some women, like my friend
who got her ex arrested are looking for revenge. My point is letting
them see that what they are doing is not right and that there are women
out there who are capable of going all out for revenge. I am not for
revenge but I wont quietly disappear either. They will know that I
respect myself and will not tolerate their lies. I will let them never
forget me and they will have no choice but to think about what the next
woman could do to them. My mother was a battered woman and I warn every
man that I date never to put their hands on me or they will live or not
live to regret it.

I am a very loving and passionate woman who would never hurt anyone. I
am honest and only want the same. I wont always get that, I know, but I
wont accept less. There are good men out there deserving of a good
woman. The liars who go around hurting women are making it extremely
hard for the good men who have to deal with the scars and hurt these
women, like myself are left with.