You do not know who you are choosing until you get to know the
individual. My last was a doctor, the kind you would take home to your
mother. How do you know who you are getting involved with until you have
had the chance to get to know them. Sometimes the attraction takes the
lead and intimacy gets the better of us before we get to know enough to
decide. We are humans and everyone deserves a fair chance.

Slick, the lady did not lie to send the man to jail. He forged Insurance
document and she just turned him in. You see, never trust a woman you
are cheating with. If you cannot be trusted, then do not trust. It will
come back to bite you.

Being that I am a woman, I can only talk from a woman's point of view.
While a player is planning on his sexual encounter he not aware that
"his woman" is knows about his game and that she is scheming to get
even. If only you men know the things I know. I am a Christian, but I am
fairly attractive and have had so many approaches from men. My
heartbreaks served as learning experiences and so I have become less
trusting and more educated in matters of the heart. The last man who
tired to play me did not know how I got his address. I had all his info
and was only waiting for him to come clean with me. When I was rudely
awaken by another female at 1AM, it was time for me to act. I opened his
eyes when I knocked on his door and had a lenghty conversation with his
wife. I am not crazy but that man now face divorce and unrelenting anger
from his wife. He could lose a lot.

Bill, I agree that there are women who are just as bad. So let me
rephrase: Why do people play with other people's emotion?

That was wrong. A one night stand is different. The woman was totally
wrong. But an established relationship built on lies is a serious
matter.

It is amazing how ignorant men are about women and their capablilities
of totally destroying their world. I have had two experiences of men who
pursued me, won my heart only to discover that they were married and
everything I was told, just about, were lies. One man is facing a prison
sentence and the other, well he almost lost his MD license and had a
visit to his house at 3:30am one morning after the truth came out. I
have a girlfriend who just turned her ex in to the authorities after
learning that he was cheating on her with two other females. She is a
court reported and knew just what to do to get him convicted. So why do
men play? I know there are female players too. But men have more
frequently underestimated the length to which a hurt female will go to
get even. Lets hear the stories.