Topic: Where Can I find True "LOVE" without the "GAMES" | |
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Just wanted too know why people have too play head "Games"?
It's just not "Right" You just as well rip my "Heart" out and stomp on it!!! Games "Hurt" big Time!!! come on let's be real ok... |
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sometimes people play games to see if the other person is really into
them. i'm not saying its right but its true. |
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Truth is better then fiction of reality
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I dont think many people actually want real relationships and love..they
just want what they can get out of you for the time being..wether its sex..money..etc. then they move on to the next unlucky person |
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Just wanted to respond to why people play head games, I don't think
playing games to see if someone is into you is ever right because the person that they are into isn't even the real you, its someone playing games.I believe game playing is done out of fear of rejection and not really knowing how to have a funtional relationship. Mary from chicago, |
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Sometimes people play headgames with that other person that they like.
It's sort of like testing to see if that person is really into you. Like a test! Sure it's pretty childish to do it. But quite ****y. Most people don't like games. I don't for that matter and we all want that special other to be real without all The Drama. We all deal with the test or situation that we get from differen't partners and people. People are allllll not the same. Each of us is differen't. But if you do not like games. Then let this person know that you appreciate that person for trying to cheer you up. But that you are not looking for games, because you are not that type of a person. Tell the person nicely that you don't appreciate the games. |
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Head Games hurt beyond the heart and it definately is a hard thing to
deal with. "Honesty is the best policy" We all want to be happy why play the games, Life really is too short. If you know you have a good thing, keep it!! |
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Many individuals who play head games end up losing instead of gaining.
Often they realize that they grow to care for the person they are playing. The pain and mistrust they caused by playing games destroy what chance they would have had for a meaningful relationship. |
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