Topic: Where Can I find True "LOVE" without the "GAMES"
CountryBoy_ByHeart's photo
Sun 02/04/07 11:57 AM
Just wanted too know why people have too play head "Games"?
It's just not "Right" You just as well rip my "Heart" out and
stomp on it!!! Games "Hurt" big Time!!! come on let's be real
ok...

Delilahrose's photo
Sun 02/04/07 12:03 PM
sometimes people play games to see if the other person is really into
them. i'm not saying its right but its true.

chismah's photo
Sun 02/04/07 12:08 PM
Truth is better then fiction of reality

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 02/04/07 12:09 PM
I dont think many people actually want real relationships and love..they
just want what they can get out of you for the time being..wether its
sex..money..etc. then they move on to the next unlucky person mad

maryc's photo
Sun 02/04/07 12:10 PM
Just wanted to respond to why people play head games, I don't think
playing games to see if someone is into you is ever right because the
person that they are into isn't even the real you, its someone playing
games.I believe game playing is done out of fear of rejection and not
really knowing how to have a funtional relationship. Mary from chicago,

chismah's photo
Sun 02/04/07 12:12 PM
Sometimes people play headgames with that other person that they like.
It's sort of like testing to see if that person is really into you. Like
a test!

Sure it's pretty childish to do it. But quite ****y. Most people don't
like games. I don't for that matter and we all want that special other
to be real without all The Drama.

We all deal with the test or situation that we get from differen't
partners and people. People are allllll not the same. Each of us is
differen't.

But if you do not like games. Then let this person know that you
appreciate that person for trying to cheer you up. But that you are not
looking for games, because you are not that type of a person. Tell the
person nicely that you don't appreciate the games.

Blondeoutlaw42's photo
Sun 02/04/07 07:01 PM
Head Games hurt beyond the heart and it definately is a hard thing to
deal with. "Honesty is the best policy" We all want to be happy why play
the games, Life really is too short. If you know you have a good thing,
keep it!!

RN2000's photo
Tue 02/13/07 08:26 PM
Many individuals who play head games end up losing instead of gaining.
Often they realize that they grow to care for the person they are
playing. The pain and mistrust they caused by playing games destroy what
chance they would have had for a meaningful relationship.