I just looked at your profile. I cannot see why you think the little extra makes you think you are fat. You actually are pretty cute. What little extra can come off. It is not like you are corpulent or truly obese.
Don't look at yourself and think "I am a looser because I am so fat!" Stop fearing what others think of you. You are in school, take advantage of their gym facilities and work that thang till ya SWEAT and modify your diet slightly. The weight will come off if it is that important to you but it takes effort. You need to do something to build your confidence back. Martial arts is a great way and I do not mean learn Gracie Ju Jitsu. There is Judo which is one of the most Non-violent of the fighting arts and as you progress in training you will get your body tested more. You will build strength and confidence. Relationships are not any where near as important as self maintenance.
Now a word from the dog inside me. "Woof, I'd tap that no problem. Woof Woof!"
With that said by the dog inside of me, let me say this from the rational me, you cannot let inner negativity make you miserable. Self image needs to be maintained as well. From what little I have seen on your profile I would say you really need to do something for YOURSELF for a change! Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I deserve better!"
Sitting on your hands wallowing in self pity is not the way to spend your life!

If your are not comfortable to meet yet..then don't. Perhaps chatting on-line with a web cam would be a possible first step.

Take mase
,a shotgun,pistol,couple of knives,a shovel,and the army national guard if u want to but do meet him.

But it doesn't sound like a gut instinct that she shouldn't meet him.

This sounds much more like a self sabatoging (sp) doubt. If I don't meet him I won't get rejected. If I reject him first, he won't reject me. If I stop things how, I won't get hurt.

But you will never ever meet a person or find what you are looking for if you give in to that kind of thought pattern.

Sure it's scary. But I think you should take the chance and actually meet him.

I'm not sure why you feel he would be disappointed by how you look. I'm not gay or anything like that, but l looked at your profile and your a cute girl. Face your fears and go for it. Have a great time! If for some reason it don't feel right, don't see him anymore.

If you feel that the both of you have been HONEST with each other......I think you should meet.
You are a striking young Lady, Pump yourself up and go for it!!!!!!

JMO.....

getting over that initial scary meeting is a hard thing to do. some people say just sitting down for coffee and getting to know the person is the way to go? just a short introductory kinda thing? but if you two are already talking on the phone that much i say give it a shot look at the 2 choices. take a chance and hope for love? or simply let it go nowhere before it begins.

GOOD LUCK!