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Tue 01/21/14 12:01 AM
Edited by BEZAX on Tue 01/21/14 12:04 AM



What is love?.. Me thinks it's a vewy big an shneaky hand,it'll just pop behind you,without a sound, then give you a hard push and before ya know it, you've fallen way down deep,..

hmm...
Has it ever pushed you? :tongue:

It sure did! That's how i met love the first time...hence, the definition.. What about you?

hmm...
it tried once, but I held myself, and did not fall then... laugh

are you still falling into it smile2 :tongue:

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Mon 01/20/14 11:46 PM
Edited by BEZAX on Mon 01/20/14 11:51 PM



For me, it is more like a plant that never stops growing.:heart:

:heart: flowers


flowerforyou drinker

smile2
just few persons understands this...
you keep falling and keep growing in love...
winking :tongue:

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Mon 01/20/14 06:15 PM
Edited by BEZAX on Mon 01/20/14 06:17 PM

For me, it is more like a plant that never stop growing.:heart:

:heart: flowers

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Mon 01/20/14 06:03 PM

the last intimate stage in a relationship is love and that could take
5 years to GROW and will keep growing. Love grows.. :wink:

"love grows"
flowers

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Mon 01/20/14 05:13 AM

What is love?.. Me thinks it's a vewy big an shneaky hand,it'll just pop behind you,without a sound, then give you a hard push and before ya know it, you've fallen way down deep,..

hmm...
Has it ever pushed you? :tongue:

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Mon 01/20/14 05:01 AM

I think falling in love is more accurate then growing into love. It feels more like a free fall that you can't stop

flowers

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Mon 01/20/14 02:45 AM

its trial and error

tongue2 you think so...

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Mon 01/20/14 02:41 AM

Yes chemicals, Like hormones. The body produces various chemicals like DMT, norepinephrine, adrenaline, and various others that cause you to feel the things you feel. They cause electrical impulses in the brain to fire across neurons that tell your body to make certain movements. The body is a complex thing.

hmm...
What if this reaction occurred only in your own brain, i.e. The woman or man dont feel the same with you?

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Mon 01/20/14 02:30 AM

real love is a commitment we make to care about someone else regardless of their shortcomings and imperfections,,,,

"regardless of their shortcomings and imperfections..."
I think reverse is the case nowadays

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Mon 01/20/14 12:49 AM

Love is a feeling of strong attraction caused by chemicals in the brain.

what chemicals?

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Sun 01/19/14 11:32 PM
What is love?
Does it really exist?
Do u grow or fall in love?

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Sun 01/19/14 11:32 PM
What is love?
Does it really exist?
Do u grow or fall in love?

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Mon 12/30/13 12:27 PM


So true, but people just have certain taste in their partner that attracts them. I for one have no preference in my type of women, but honestly, I prefer white women. I don't know why b ut they just attracts me them. I for one have no preference in my type of women, but honestly, I prefer white women. I don't know why b ut they just attracts me


So you would rather be with a "white woman" that treated you like shite, and was unfaithful, than a black woman that spoiled you, and acted like you were the most important thing in her life? noway



this ^

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Mon 12/30/13 12:20 PM

Don't know how to started (: hi everybody I'm new and happy new year to you all (:

what
just start from anywhere... White,black, ebony, pink, even green... laugh :tongue:
WELCOME

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Mon 12/30/13 12:11 PM


lol

heck, I HAvent DATED in 6 years,, lol, but the last time I dated someone who was not a white male was ,,,over a decade ago

I Just don't see how anyone doesn't see the beauty in all races, I could never exclude a whole race of people from my definition of attractive,,,nor from my dating choices

I May not like 'pale skin', but nooone I Dated had EVERY Asthetic feature I like, hopefully we aren't so shallow as to make a decision on one, UNCHANGABLE, physical attribute,, some of those pale skin men still have very sexy attitudes, or beautiful smiles or handsome faces or nice bodies,, or a whole host of things that are attractive to me,,


I just don't get equating race with attractiveness,,,or making it a qualifier for dating




I agree with you, MsHarmony!

My ex husband is black , my ex boyfriend is White... I find both of them Very attractive!
I don't have a " RACE TYPE" because I think it's silly. If I like or love you... it's you!

If I dislike you... It's still YOU!


flowerforyou

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Fri 12/27/13 09:38 PM


NO! NO! its too late! You are one of us now LOVERBOY "You can check out
any time you like but you can never leave".:tongue:

Again, it doesn't matter about labeling YOUR felling, because without
her consent it will be like a no armed man in I gun fight.
good luck

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Fri 12/27/13 08:43 PM
A big thanks to you all, but I think am gonna handle things my own way now because I don't like this strange feelings, it leave not strength in me...
Can't continue letting her come around, and I'm gonna scare her

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Fri 12/27/13 08:33 PM



It also depends on how long you've known her and the nature of your relationship, if you haven't known her for long or if you've basically been just friends, telling her you love her might creep her out and scare her away. But if you've known her for some time and you have a close relationship, loving her would be the next logical step, and not creepy at all.

I agree with Crystal, if you let her know you care about her, and then lead up to the love thing, it might go over well. Everyone wants to be cared for by people they like, and it's nice to hear it from time to time.

Good luck to you.flowerforyou

I just met her a month ago, the first time I saw her, I didn't like her for any reason, but after few chatting with her things changed which I don't understand


I met a guy in college years ago, when I first met him, I thought he was weird and not at all attractive. After I got to know him, I thought he was the most amazing guy ever. So getting to know people can change how you feel about them. Or at least it should.

In love after a month? I don't think so, it might just be infatuation. Real love takes longer than that.

you think so, you don't understand, but its ok, perhaps I do it my own way now...

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Fri 12/27/13 12:49 PM


Can't just stop thinking about her, but each time I see her I pretend not to have any feelings because I don't know if she feels the same way, I don't know how to tell her and I lack that courage to say to her "I LOVE YOU"

You don't even know if she would even consider you romantically and your
In love ? noway Well I would say your infatuated with hersmitten ,which would be the first stage of a relationship , if in fact you two were in a relationship.slaphead yeah dude don't tell her that,its totally irrelevant what you or we want to call it,the balls in her court when you ask her "have you ever considered us for anything other that friends". If her answer is friends and she is firm with that. Then you
better get you feelings in check.

how can you not read any body language?
how does she sit around you?
does she seem to focus her attention on you more when there is
other men around? Is she touchy? Does she kick you in the
shins or hit you when you tease her?



hmm...

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Fri 12/27/13 12:40 PM

It also depends on how long you've known her and the nature of your relationship, if you haven't known her for long or if you've basically been just friends, telling her you love her might creep her out and scare her away. But if you've known her for some time and you have a close relationship, loving her would be the next logical step, and not creepy at all.

I agree with Crystal, if you let her know you care about her, and then lead up to the love thing, it might go over well. Everyone wants to be cared for by people they like, and it's nice to hear it from time to time.

Good luck to you.flowerforyou

I just met her a month ago, the first time I saw her, I didn't like her for any reason, but after few chatting with her things changed which I don't understand