how far and long should it last on the net before....

im not into computers,or the net. this is more of an aid or last resort for me. more so to find the one.

so my sich is, iv found a girl (that might work), on the net, weve been talkin for a few weeks. we seem to get along great and have alot in commen.

but, and its a big one, ITS THE NET. this part is new to me. havent gotin to this part yet.

absolutly clueless? iv only delt with in person contact wen it comes to meetin girls.

wat has worked for u?
wat hasnt?

this is weird for me to only have words to work with (as some of u might already know, again sorry.lol). with no tones, expretions, body language, eye contact, and everthing else that gos with face to face interaction, im lost, confused, and in a whole new world. it almost feels like bein a kid again, havin no experiance on the subject.

sorry for the long post, just painting a picture.

I think this is an AWESOME thread

and honestly? man I have no clue

a few messages - then if they seem to be nice and compatico
and live in the same time zone say...then get together for
coffee and see if you get along in person

maybe it will be yes
possibly it will be no

nothing ventured nothing gained
but no reason to put it off
you'll just be one day older when you do....

Met this one girl, in Ohio..on the net - then the phone - BOOM it clicked.......I hung out with her at her place like 7 hours...and we JUST talked


No sex, no making out, no me "coming on to her"

I was just me...and it was awesome...we got along like we were friends for 7 years.........................

And...I cant remember her name

You fill in the blanks as to what happened after that night

I can't date period, I'm terrible at it online and off.

You dont wanna date any one Billy, shuddup

They see the Dahmer picture on here, and hear the Dahmer story offline...I've effectively said 'f it'.

You'll find you a little serial killerette Billy...one of these days

Maybe mate, but I'm comfortable alone too.

I totally understand.........Just like me.....Notice the grape ape? I don't think thats going to bring em in screaming my name





But


It might


And that maybe is what I live for. I "looked" for a girl the first 9 years of my man hood. (18 to 27)

These next 9 years they can come to me

i meet another before her, we clicked pretty good, i thought. talked for a while, got her #, and never heard back. havin been the first real bite, i had no clue wat to think. she tells me to call wen im around, and we live about 5 to 20 mins away (depending on ur drivin habits, haha) she lives on the beach, and knew i try to go as often as i can (to the beach). gave her plenty of warning, but still, after gettin the # i never got anything back. didnt think much of it and kept searchin.

now this one comes along, and ther seems to b more in commen. so i wanted to b a little safer with this one. i still dont think i did something wrong with the last, but this is all new to me, so... ?

You didnt

She prob was mad at you because you smelled like her ex

thats r prob, wer too honnest and up front. its so fun scarin them off with out talkin to them. lets u know ur weird. who realy wants to cram them selfs in a box anyway. sounds super unconfortable.

bet u anything u lie ur ars off and post some modles pic and theyd b swarmin.

Doubt it, at least not here...put up a models pic here and the forum alone will tear you apart.

wait i reek that bad, oops forgot to close the bag and do shirt laundry.

I dunno about that Billy


I noticed I get more, "So and so viewed your profile"

When the grape ape isn't up....

Welcome to mathmatics Billy, finding love has never been more impossible.

how can any one resist the grape ape. just look at him all grapie colored, with his smoke burnin.

you like that?

I added the smoke burnin myself...fyi


inferring something...did it work?

dude, id have to say its cool meeting people on here... but meeting (for me anyways) is a different story. we clicked with getting along and everything, but then face to face its different. Im not saying its always bad, just be prepared! Good luck with it!