So, I went to my friends college tonight to hang out with her. I want some "analysis" on what happened. She "picked" me up with her friend (in the parking lot) introduced me and then we went to her friends room. Gets boring here.. we sat there for like an hour not doing much we chatted a little, but her friends came in and talked all girly stuff (its an all female university). Eventually I pulled out my ipod and she got her headphones and we started listening to my ipod together.. and we talked about some songs and stuff. Anyway after this we went to her dorm, and her roommate was in and out all the time we were there. We sat on her bed and talked for a bit.. I held her hand and she just seemed a bit distracted. We talked about if she liked anyone and she said "im not sure what I want yet" so i asked bluntly do you like me and she said "well for now we're friends but could get to more". So it's 8:45 and we walk back to my car.. I see shes cold (she refused my coat earlier) so i grab her hand and she holds back (she didnt earlier) and then i put my arm over her to try and keep her warm. Anyway we get to my car.. and I give her a kiss.. a few times.. she seemed to like it and ends with "bye I can't wait to talk again and see you". Do you guys think theres a chance for a relationship? I'm not entirely sure she likes me in that way, but I guess me kissing her showed I had interest and she did hold my hand back when we went outside and held my hands when we were kissing.

too much to read sorry

Well She Didn't Give you the Forehead when You went to Kiss Her so that's a Plus

no she was into it i kissed her like 4 times and she was holding me during it.

You didn't get slapped. She didn't pull away when you kissed her. I am assuming she didn't ask you what the heck you thought you were doing. So I say yeah you have a big chance.

yeah gee, this is a really tough one...go figure!

it is a tough one. Did you read 90% of my original post? Just because she let me kiss her doesn't mean she likes me...

Your right it doesn't but you asked if there was a chance for a relationship. I just pointed out the obvious signs that there is a chance. never said she liked you like because I am not her. did you read my first response?

I don't believe he was referring to what you said.

From a female's point of view, I think it's way too early to tell. And besides, just because she enjoyed the kisses, doesn't mean you should read a whole lot into it. I mean seriously, I think everybody enjoys kissing. Just take things slowly with her. Like they say, patience is a virtue!

Good luck

I was talking to thor22 sorry. he said gee is this a tough one? I understood your response and agreed with it.

sorry about that. Mis understood. Very long day at work.

mmmhh welll sounds like she gave you the answer right there.
She wants to just be friends right now..
So as of now she is not ready for a relationship..if she ever will be only time will tell..
She does seem a bit withdrawn perhaps..she may just had a bad day..but u bluntly asked her and she responded. I would just not get my hopes up too much, you may drive her away w/ being too straight forward.....maybe a bit pushy in her eyes..you may just entered the "Freind Zone"I call it...just go w/your gut, if you feel she is not feeling you and you want more, you may need to just move on..
How long have you guys been chilling together?
Anyways as of right now she is not ready to commit..and she may never be.

sure why not...keep us posted

Yea, I know she doesn't want a relationship right now. I just think she sent me the wrong message with the whole holding hands/kissing thing. I'm not even sure what I want with her yet, I'm just gonna keep it simple.

Yea keep it simple..play it by ear. Just enjoy being with her. She may be bluffing too..I have been guilty of that once or twice...(Little stupid head games)...we don't like to be vulnerable..but I think in this case she may just not wanting to move soo fast.

yea, i agree with you. she just seems a little hesitant to put herself out there to get hurt. I'm not sure what to expect, maybe I'll find out if we hang out again. I have no expectations it may have been a spur of the moment kiss session, or it may have been here true feelings. Either way I'm not too worried about this. Thanks for your input.

Didn't she say there could be more? That tells you there is a chance. Just take it slow.

yea, she did. We didn't talk last night (besides a quick chat and a good night) because she's busy with a paper and a test. She showed me all the work on her computer it sure is a lot haha. I'm pretty confident that she has interest in me, but is not quite ready for me to her boyfriend. We did meet online with the intention to date, and I'm thinking she needs more than one hang out session to decide what she really wants. She did tell me she was really happy I came and all night she kept smiling at me and I did it back to her. I think theres definitely some hope left, and as far as I'm concerned I'm keeping optimistic about the whole situation. I kissed her because I figured what did I have to lose? We're friends sure, but I have the intention of eventually having a serious relationship with this girl.