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I think you just want to have sex with her, the angry/grudge comments are the tool you're using to justify it in your head. Well obviously I still want to have sex with her. But its more complicated than that. She realizes what she lost and wants me back. I don't want go back to that misguided and chaotic feeling of love, but I do want to f*** this sh** out of her! The sex was always good between us... everything else was screwed up. I'd like to have that intense sex again but I think I may be playing with fire here. |
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Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea. I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want. My ex did like some kink and violence when we had sex. But the difference is that there was love before (or so I thought). I do not love her anymore but I am still angry with her. That anger is most likely to come out during sex. I would never hurt her (or any women for that matter), but there is this strong desire to have intense angry sex with her. |
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Horrible idea. edit: and the term "violent sex" makes you sound like a psycho/creep. Thanks for the advice |
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Edited by
Urbanphilosopher
on
Sun 11/09/08 04:06 PM
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While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other.
Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life. After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her. Good idea or bad? |
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Topic:
To the women of L.a.
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No hits yet huh? I guess we need something more to snag an LA female.
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Topic:
sanfransico vs LA
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SF liberal nature makes the crackheads and the hypes more prominent as opposed to LA where they hide in street alleys.
Do you seriously think there is no gangs in the Bay area? |
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Topic:
Who thinks LA is beautiful?
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It has bad traffic and the pretentious Hollywood wannabes... but it has culture, history and artistic movement that derives from the streets and the fusion of the diversity in the city.
Anyone agree? |
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Topic:
Whats up SoCal !!!!!
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I hear the odds are better with Pai Gow
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Topic:
Someone from LA - chat
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You'll only find someone to help you if you are a hot european underware model who will give sexual favor in exchange for help in LA.... but even that won't work outhere sometimes.
Good luck! |
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Topic:
WRONG
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LOVE... and you can do no wrong.
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To be aware is to be eternal.
When moses asked Gos who He was, He responded, "I AM, that I AM". He didn't resond "I am, that I WAS" or "I am, that I WILL BE". Who God is, is the eternal presence of time. Past and future are inventions of mean. Everything else in nature know no time. The time is alays now, the time is always present. That is God. |
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Topic:
rant
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Unless we are thankful for what we have, we will never have more...
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personality disorders are nothing to laugh about.
WHO SAID THAT? Oh, no not you again... STOP WHININIG YOU WUSSY! Why do you always put us down? I JUST GIVE YOU SOME HONESTY, IF YOU WOULD LISTEN TO ME THEN PEOPLE WOULDN'T THINK WE WERE SO SCREWED UP! I'm going to cry now... |
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Topic:
The First Ever Muggle Thread
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Topic:
The First Ever Muggle Thread
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wait so am I not supposed to write anything when I respond to this thread?
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Topic:
Pillow time...
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Dream of on the one you want
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I respect a women who can handle her liquor
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Well, I guess it's just like dating out in the real world. If it doesn't work just keep on trying.
Thanks for the responses so far. |
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I've sent out 10 messages to women I think I can connect with and none of them have written back. Do most women just assume that all guys on this site are sleazy and are very picky who they write back to, or do they just like recieving messages with no intention to write back.
I just want to know if I am wasting my time on this site. |
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