Topic: Is sex with your ex a good idea? | |
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Edited by
Urbanphilosopher
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Sun 11/09/08 04:06 PM
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While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other.
Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life. After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her. Good idea or bad? |
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Bad idea.
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Edited by
msmyka
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Sun 11/09/08 04:03 PM
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Horrible idea.
edit: and the term "violent sex" makes you sound like a psycho/creep. |
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hit it and forget it !
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Bad bad bad idea.
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NO COMMENT...whispers go for it quietly
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Violent sex? Sounds REALLY REALLY bad..
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Christ on His throne, NO!!!!!
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Never...no...nada...nicht...
Please don't make me! |
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Violent sex? Sounds REALLY REALLY bad.. Depends on who you are talking to...I love it rough! |
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what ever floats your boat i guess, but i would`nt do it
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Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea.
I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want. |
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Rough and violent maybe synonyms but the choice of the word VIOLENT says a lot more about the OP.
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Horrible idea. edit: and the term "violent sex" makes you sound like a psycho/creep. Thanks for the advice |
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Nice edit OP.
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Don't even need to read it.......sex with your ex is never a good idea. They are an ex for a reason, why revisit it?
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While my ex and I were together we would talk about marriage, babies and giving up our whole life for each other. Then right before she takes off to Spain for the summer she decides that I am too much drama and cuts me out of her life. After four months of trying to get her out of mind, she wants to meet up again. I have no intention of getting back together with her, but she's hot and I just want to have grudge sex with her. Good idea or bad? |
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Well Ummm the Violent Sex comment is a little disturbing but if that's what you were into when you were together then well whatever floats your boat- having sex with the ex is tricky- if you are only looking for a physical release- you need to be clear on that so noone gets the wrong idea. I had a deal with my ex- we had sex with each other til one of us found someone we wanted to be with and then we stopped being with each other- it worked out fine but we set boundaries- it can work but you have to be clear in what you want. My ex did like some kink and violence when we had sex. But the difference is that there was love before (or so I thought). I do not love her anymore but I am still angry with her. That anger is most likely to come out during sex. I would never hurt her (or any women for that matter), but there is this strong desire to have intense angry sex with her. |
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I think you just want to have sex with her, the angry/grudge comments are the tool you're using to justify it in your head.
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