I realize that many BEAUTIFUL WOMEN get turned off by all the CREEPS that hit them up on this website that they DON'T LAST LONG HERE. It makes it hard for a guy who is actually trying to GET TO KNOW SOMEONE. Even if you get in contact with a woman you like, it's hard to break through defenses to MAKE A REAL CONNECTION. TRUE STORY: As a half joke, half experiment, I created a FAKE PROFILE with a picture of a HOT girl just to see how guys would respond. I got 10 messages in one day and started responding back. Some dudes here are so HARD UP FOR SEX that they kept messaging even when I sent them stupid, mean and bull **** messages. IT WAS RIDICULOUS! However karma got me back when someone did the same thing to me on facebook... I don't mean to bad mouth anyone here. We're all just looking for happiness and someone who brings fun into our lives. It's just hard to meet good people to date, ESPECIALLY IN L.A.! I've made some connections through this site... I even went on a date once... but I didn't find what I wanted. I know that if I ever want to find the girl of my dreams, I first need to show her that I am A MAN WORTH HER TIME and make a real effort to go out there and find her! GOOD LUCK TO YOU! I wish you happiness and good company.