i have to say you are rude, you remind me of my cousin all liberal and crap hella annoying you hit a bad spot... your like one of those annoying chicks that speak their mind on every single issue right? christian or no christian you will never get a good guy with that attitude...lol

To answer your question, yes, they do exist. You might want to try looking in a church.

Honestly though, if you want to find any kind of "good" girl you should probably tone back on the attitude. Just because a girl is christian doesn't mean she'll march in lock-step with all of your beliefs.

Also, being pessimistic and complaining about the lack of 'good' girls isn't particularly endearing.

Here's the problem with finding someone who's opinions are the same as yours:

Opinions change over time. Beliefs change over time. Yours will and hers will. It's better to find someone who can respect your beliefs even if they differ. It will make for a much longer lasting relationship.

I was just responding to the words you actually posted.

I pass no judgments on you. Perhaps it was just poor wording on your part and you meant it differently than what you actually typed.

For me personally, my commitment to a life partner would be first and foremost on my list of concerns.

This isn't true for everyone, and I'm not even suggesting that it should be.

But you did say that you were concerned that your friends would 'make fun of you'. And so those were the words I was responding to. Perhaps you meant it differently than I took it.

Again, I pass no judgments. I'm just commenting on what I thought I understood you to be saying.

It's easy to miscommunicate on forum posts and often times we type in things briefly when in our own minds there's a whole lot more to it.

Now that I can understand.

Sounds like you should be looking for a good christian girl whose opinions do not vary from your own. Good luck with that.

I didn't say christians were bad at all, my brother is studying to be a pastor and hes my favorite person in the world. My point was simply that asking for a good christian girl is subjective and the two are not necessarily synonymous.

as i said you'll be ready to date or get serious with someone of another culture when thoughts like this donot enter your head anymore - till then you've got alot of growing to do.

I have to agree with Ruth. You've got a long way to grow.

First off, if your so-called friends would make fun of you because of your choices in life then are they even your "friends" to begin with?

Secondly, why are you living your life based on what other people might think? Don't you have a mind of your own? What's your purpose in life? To go around trying to live out other people's predujudices?

And finally, like Ruth says, if you are worried about what other people think you're not even ready for a serious relationship.

Do the girl a favor and tell her to find someone who cares. It might break her heart but it will be the best advice you can give her.

ok, their is this girl she is overseas.

????

How much money does she need to get here????

I don’t think that your concern is necessarily immature. The fact is that your friends are a part of your life. And your relationship with this girl is also a part of your life. How important those two parts are, relative to each other and all the other parts, is the decision you have to make. Completely dismissing the relationship of your friends to this girl will not make for a realistic evaluation of the best possible course. All the interrelationships of everything in your life must be considered. That would be the truly mature viewpoint.

from one who has dated most cultures around the world - if your thoughts are such it will not work out. the mere fact your asking these things is proof of that, when your mature enough to know that your questions are foolish then you will be ready to be in such a relationship. otherwise it will end pretty much as you have already foreordained already in your mind.

Not ONCE! - have i ever even had such thoughts or entertained them - the only difference between you and her is your immaturity in thing's of knowing what ought to be as to what is in your mind - not your friends minds.

love, relationships,friendships have absolutely nothing to do with who one is outward but everything to do with whom one is inward. if the only draw this lady has for you is her beliefs and beauty, then your feelings are false and your deceiving yourself and will inturn deceive her also.

I grew up in a private christian school, I understand "religious people" a little better than I'd like too. I'm just making a point which is that christian doesnt necessarily equal "good"

Oy vey...

Yes, this is the Religion Chat forum. However, sin is personal. I'm sure there are many lovely Christian websites that have forums such as this where there will be no mocking. I happen to know of a good one that a friend moderates. Email me if you would like the url.

Many on here are not joking to hurt your feelings or degrade you. A dating site is not about confessions, but making friends and maybe finding that special someone.

Just my 2 cents...

Seems like you are narrowing down you search and excluding people before you even get a chance to know them.

What does looking for a woman have to do with religion?

hell no brother I`v looked.