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Topic: any nice christian girls in cali?
crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:02 AM

i need me a good christian girl in cali, so where are they??? mabey its you?.... much love drew

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Wed 10/22/08 01:02 AM
hell no brother I`v looked.

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:09 AM

hell no brother I`v looked.


well here we are two christians, well i sure hope he is with the hell no statemnet, but anyhow, you got to pick out of both of us... so here theirs a choice me or him?

msmyka's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:15 AM
What does looking for a woman have to do with religion? slaphead

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:18 AM

What does looking for a woman have to do with religion? slaphead

well believe me if you are religious, you HAVE to have a girl that loves god, that is one thing that is a requirement for dating me you have to give most of your life to christ... if not we wont be on the same page and that costs alot of struggle in a relationship... religion is a way of life for people that take it seriously... why do you ask that anyways? its kinda obvious right?


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Wed 10/22/08 01:19 AM
nothing in my book as long as they play nice.

msmyka's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:20 AM
Seems like you are narrowing down you search and excluding people before you even get a chance to know them.

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:24 AM

Seems like you are narrowing down you search and excluding people before you even get a chance to know them.


ok people have "requirments" pertaining to a relationship right? that is a HUGE one for me... if they dont have a relationship with christ how will it work, im telling you ive seen it time and time again... IT NEVER WORKS... i dont think you understand religous people, if your serious about god you want him in every aspect of your life... if their isnt that in a girl its pointless to me...

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Wed 10/22/08 01:25 AM
who me? I`d like to get to know you.

msmyka's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:29 AM


Seems like you are narrowing down you search and excluding people before you even get a chance to know them.


ok people have "requirments" pertaining to a relationship right? that is a HUGE one for me... if they dont have a relationship with christ how will it work, im telling you ive seen it time and time again... IT NEVER WORKS... i dont think you understand religous people, if your serious about god you want him in every aspect of your life... if their isnt that in a girl its pointless to me...


I grew up in a private christian school, I understand "religious people" a little better than I'd like too. I'm just making a point which is that christian doesnt necessarily equal "good"

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:34 AM



Seems like you are narrowing down you search and excluding people before you even get a chance to know them.


ok people have "requirments" pertaining to a relationship right? that is a HUGE one for me... if they dont have a relationship with christ how will it work, im telling you ive seen it time and time again... IT NEVER WORKS... i dont think you understand religous people, if your serious about god you want him in every aspect of your life... if their isnt that in a girl its pointless to me...


I grew up in a private christian school, I understand "religious people" a little better than I'd like too. I'm just making a point which is that christian doesnt necessarily equal "good"


this i know, i dont rely on the title christian, i rely on your relationship with god... and i get so upset when people sit their and say christians are bad people, every crowd has its bad apple... i look at the christian in them, if they are true to god then its wonderful... and i would want to see more about them... but theirs always those people who give us a bad name and i think its hillarious that thats all you focus on

msmyka's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:41 AM
I didn't say christians were bad at all, my brother is studying to be a pastor and hes my favorite person in the world. My point was simply that asking for a good christian girl is subjective and the two are not necessarily synonymous.

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:48 AM

I didn't say christians were bad at all, my brother is studying to be a pastor and hes my favorite person in the world. My point was simply that asking for a good christian girl is subjective and the two are not necessarily synonymous.


your one of those chicks that even know she knows what was ment have to correct everything like my cousin jackie...lol

msmyka's photo
Wed 10/22/08 01:59 AM
Sounds like you should be looking for a good christian girl whose opinions do not vary from your own. Good luck with that.

crayonredd's photo
Wed 10/22/08 06:12 AM

Sounds like you should be looking for a good christian girl whose opinions do not vary from your own. Good luck with that.


strongly agree :)

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 10/22/08 06:17 AM
Here's the problem with finding someone who's opinions are the same as yours:

Opinions change over time. Beliefs change over time. Yours will and hers will. It's better to find someone who can respect your beliefs even if they differ. It will make for a much longer lasting relationship.

crayonredd's photo
Thu 10/30/08 04:22 PM

Here's the problem with finding someone who's opinions are the same as yours:

Opinions change over time. Beliefs change over time. Yours will and hers will. It's better to find someone who can respect your beliefs even if they differ. It will make for a much longer lasting relationship.


opposites is a myth, and if it isnt a myth its a rarity... now im not saying people donht date that are opposite... im saying nine and a half times out of ten they dont work

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 10/30/08 06:21 PM


Here's the problem with finding someone who's opinions are the same as yours:

Opinions change over time. Beliefs change over time. Yours will and hers will. It's better to find someone who can respect your beliefs even if they differ. It will make for a much longer lasting relationship.


opposites is a myth, and if it isnt a myth its a rarity... now im not saying people donht date that are opposite... im saying nine and a half times out of ten they dont work


I didnt' say anything about finding the opposite.

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Fri 10/31/08 12:57 AM
O.O

well theres one I know of *points to self* but your so far!!grumble

invadernina's photo
Sat 11/01/08 12:08 AM
To answer your question, yes, they do exist. You might want to try looking in a church.

Honestly though, if you want to find any kind of "good" girl you should probably tone back on the attitude. Just because a girl is christian doesn't mean she'll march in lock-step with all of your beliefs.

Also, being pessimistic and complaining about the lack of 'good' girls isn't particularly endearing.

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