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Thu 08/08/13 08:23 AM

DNA testing will expose the truth when the body eventually washes up on shore. :thumbsup:
hahahahahahah

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Thu 08/08/13 05:28 AM
I think is a lady

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Thu 08/08/13 05:08 AM
To me women heart is the deep ocean of secret

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Wed 08/07/13 02:05 PM
Ok ladies I asume is all a compliment for the guys!!!

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Wed 08/07/13 08:35 AM



You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep
talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is
with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way
to get your a$$ kicked or shot!!
Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman
gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy
she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP
IT!!!
oops do you really think so but some girls dont knw what they want

Do you really believe that? When it comes to the type of men we
want, we know exactly what we want. Just like...do you men know
what you want? If you think you can change her mind, I think you are
making a mistake! Why would you want her if she is IN love with
someone else?
what if in a situation she is seen with another fine but to that guy he complain this same thing when he see her with me you got that so,wuld you suggest now that she dosnt lov the other guy and is me she lov,so who dosnt knw what she or he want nw?

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Wed 08/07/13 08:35 AM



You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep
talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is
with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way
to get your a$$ kicked or shot!!
Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman
gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy
she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP
IT!!!
oops do you really think so but some girls dont knw what they want

Do you really believe that? When it comes to the type of men we
want, we know exactly what we want. Just like...do you men know
what you want? If you think you can change her mind, I think you are
making a mistake! Why would you want her if she is IN love with
someone else?
what if in a situation she is seen with another fine but to that guy he complain this same thing when he see her with me you got that so,wuld you suggest now that she dosnt lov the other guy and is me she lov,so who dosnt knw what she or he want nw?

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Tue 08/06/13 10:48 PM

You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep
talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is
with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way
to get your a$$ kicked or shot!!
Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman
gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy
she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP
IT!!!
oops do you really think so but some girls dont knw what they want

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Tue 08/06/13 07:34 PM

When that happens.....it's time to call some hookers and party like Robert Downey Jr. did back in the early 90's. drinks :laughing:
yeah cheers for that

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Tue 08/06/13 07:32 PM

I would temprory make some sexy girl friend and start kssing infront her to make her jealus.
hahahahah,u got an idea

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Tue 08/06/13 02:06 PM


I need 2 mingle in private,ad me


noway *red flag*
hey u aint good judge you wuld hav givn me yellow flag before red...you aint no clemency

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Tue 08/06/13 02:02 PM


Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart



She won't stay impressed or loving if she finds out you been lying.
good opinion

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Tue 08/06/13 01:59 PM

It is Dishonest to pretend and that is Not normal.
tank u so much

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Tue 08/06/13 01:55 PM


Kind of telling lies 2 impress or win the persn's heart


Do you really want to dress up like grandma, to catch red riding hood? and not get her in the long run?

The wolf would have done better with a cigar wearing a smoking jacket, in the right environment....laugh

Be who you are....nothing more, nothing less...
offtopic

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Tue 08/06/13 01:44 PM



Assuming she wants to be "kept", that will depend solely on whether or not you can accept being with someone who does not and may never love you as you wish to be loved.

I think resentments could easily grow from this situation though.

If you don't fully accept that she does not love you and choose to stay with her, you may resent that she does not love you.

If you do fully accept that she does not love you and stay, you may feel content for a while but eventually resent both her and yourself for giving up opportunities for the kind of love you really wanted.

That's what I've seen happen in similar situations anyway. Good luck friend. flowerforyou
ok,but what culd be the feelins if seen around with a guy


possibly jelousy
drinker hey grab a cup for that

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Tue 08/06/13 01:35 PM

I totally agree with this. I will give you a very wise saying:
I you love (truly) something or someone, set it (he, she) free.
If it was yours, it(he, she) will return to you.
If not it (he, she) was never yours.

I went through this exact problem and I didn't think I could live past the pain it caused me. But I did and the one I loved married someone else and got divorced. He came back to look for me only problem is that when he came back I no longer saw in him what I thought I once saw. We stayed friends, but I would never give him my heart again.

Hope this helps. Best Wishes.flowerforyou
tanks it really helps alot

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Tue 08/06/13 01:31 PM

Best of luck to you brother.

We all deserve good love. ....the very best love is freely given.

If the girl doesn't appreciate you for being a good man...then she probably isn't very smart. Let her settle for someone less and move on to find a better woman who can appreciate you for you.

Trust me....I have fallen for some truly stupid women....I am glad those relationships failed....cause those failures led me to the woman who really loves me.
drinks thats the spirit

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Tue 08/06/13 10:26 AM

Welcome to Mingle2
tnks

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Tue 08/06/13 10:25 AM
I need 2 mingle in private,ad me

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Tue 08/06/13 10:22 AM
Great ideas!!

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Tue 08/06/13 09:34 AM

Hi. Welcome to Mingle2.:smile:
tanks wuld you mingle wit me

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