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Wed 06/01/16 12:15 PM

Most of the men that contact me are anywhere from 10 - 20 years younger than myself. Men my own age rarely, if ever, message me. I guess they are too busy going after younger women.
Then it is time to let the young ones in tongue2

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Wed 06/01/16 10:12 AM

has anyone just looked around and watch how many people have their noses in their phones at any given time? even driving, it's still about 1 out of 3...
Yes...I was downtown in a cab yesterday...I was watching to see how many were staring at their phones. Also noticed how much people look like clones these days. Either blue or whit dress shirts with dress pants and noses in their phones....yikes scared

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Wed 06/01/16 10:08 AM

Absolutely
I find it very rude
If you are that bored
Or dislike me that much

You need to go somewhere that makes you happy
awww can't we all just be happy sharing? All my FB friends wanna know what I'm doing :joy::laughing:

Kidding flowerforyou

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Tue 05/31/16 03:18 PM
You just think your so dang cute frustrated

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Tue 05/31/16 03:15 PM

I've always tried to be a honest person that doesn't mess with people feelings, but I keep ending up being the one that gets mess about with. Some of my family have said that I'm to nice to people that don't deserve it but that's just the way I am. Just getting fed up of being the one that gets hurt all the time. Hopefully one day I'll meet the right person
As they say " don't ever change"
My son is exactly like you in this way. Sometimes it annoys me how nice and generous he is and sometimes he gets taken advantage of. But then I can say how proud I am of him and so very thankful that this is who he is rather than the alternative. :laughing:

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Mon 05/30/16 07:54 PM
what goes around..comes around eventually. The age is no Biggy. .we are all here to enjoy this life but hurting others is not good.

What are you thinking? She's married!

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Mon 05/30/16 03:18 PM


Is romance and chivalry dead?


Its still there & a lot of women cherish & it is also dead with many & it's been replaced by materialism, selffishness and new age bullshiit that manipulates those morals with corrupt ethics.

:thumbsup:

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Mon 05/30/16 03:13 PM
Or...it was nice meeting you..shake his hand and don't mention anything about calling or making a second date :laughing:

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Mon 05/30/16 03:11 PM

I've thought about this. If you are on a first date with someone and you're having that feeling by the end that you're not into wanting to go out again, how do you end it? This was nice. Bye.
pretty much :laughing::sweat_smile:

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Mon 05/30/16 03:10 PM
shocked


OK if a woman took the pic then it looks like a safety measure.

If a man does it...oh man! That looks stockerish. ..just saying :banana:

I guess something out of your hamper is out of the question.sad2
shocked whoa rofl

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Mon 05/30/16 03:07 PM

For thousands of years men have poured out there hearts to women. Men would write poetry, sing to them, always polite to them, any jester to show ones affection. But in the last century that has all changed. With the rise of technology there has been the destruction of common decency. Sex is everywhere in our society which has become common to us numbing our minds. The effect of giving into ones carnal nature has cause the escalation or loss of chivalry and romance in general, because we live in a society that is focused on "ME". Here is an example, if a man took a female out opened doors for her, brought her flowers, was just generally very nice and polite, walks her home on the first date he would get the nice guy flag. No guy wants that flag ever. But if a man took her out for drinks and went back to her place to roll in the sack she would be more likely to keep him. Courting to win a woman's heart really doesn't exsist any more. There's no romance in that. Any thoughts?
Society is breaking down. I think regressing. So many are so lost and don't have a clue anymore what they want. It's not their fault...it's how life is now. Kids are brought up in a world where there is little real interaction from their parents ..siblings and friends. The Internet and games are bringing up children today. The ĺist goes on as to why...

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Mon 05/30/16 02:48 PM
OK if a woman took the pic then it looks like a safety measure.

If a man does it...oh man! That looks stockerish. ..just saying :banana:

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Mon 05/30/16 02:42 PM
I should rephrase " it's all cool...call me whenever you have time" is what I meant.
Everyone needs to know that they are cared about so a woman needs to call as well but don't be pushy. Anyways that's my experience in what works for me.

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Mon 05/30/16 02:23 PM
What seems to work for me the best is the "it doesn't really matter" attitude. It's not a game..what it is..is men don't like clingy or controlling women and they sense this type right off. Some men do but they wouldn't usually be the kind of man strong "emotionally" women would want anyways. In my experience I find that men call me far more often when they know they aren't the center of my world lol . It's all phsychological.

And I agree with Crystal that men are uncomfortable with drama so they lie.

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Sun 05/29/16 08:46 PM
It's so much easier to lie than to be hurtful.
Maybe some have every intention on calling but just maybe in the meantime they met someone else who peaked their interest more.

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Sun 05/29/16 08:32 AM
This may be way out there for some but it could be the government's who are doing the posessng.
We are constantly being bombarded with technology used for mind control.
There is HAARP which can alter our minds and thinking to name one and also fluoride which is put in the water supply in certain areas was used by Hitler for mind control.
That's just naming a couple things. There is also the constant reprogramming of our minds through subliminal messaging everywhere.

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Sun 05/29/16 08:18 AM


Kind of strange we went from the UK side to the American side..offtopic


See? damn humans...we don't need reasons for the $hit we do. :wink: If this thread makes it to the 9 page range, I'd place a bet it'll turn into a younger guy/cougar discussion or 20 posts resembling this " Is site on I can has find love haha"
you wish! :tongue:

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Sun 05/29/16 08:16 AM
Its so hard to say if it's true or not. The world is over populating and maybe humans are closing in on these creatures or beings.
Maybe the government or scientists were doing some sort of experiments that went wrong.
Maybe they are deformed human beings
Or its just another hoax laugh

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Sat 05/28/16 02:21 PM

Found love..still here :-)
that's true..some still stick around for the friendships and forums :smile:

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Sat 05/28/16 02:18 PM


In someone on Mingle but is too afraid to approach that one?
I mean a potential mate interest..not sexual.

Disclaimer: In no way, shape or form has this got anything to do with me personally blushing


I have sent messages out but not all have been to someone I would consider a potential mate.. sometimes it is just I like something they said in their profile.. but even to those that I take an interest in... if they don't respond back.. I take it they are not interested and move on...
People face rejection every day in life... this is no different..
By the way I like your disclaimer...lol
Thank you :smile:

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