“people in general … are ungrateful, voluble, dissemblers, anxious to avoid danger, and covetous of gain; as long as you benefit them, they are entirely yours,” but their “love is held by a chain of obligation which, people being selfish, is broken whenever it serves their purpose.” (Prince, xvii, p. 61) “[they] will all think of their own interests …. for people will always be false … unless they are compelled by necessity to be true.” (Prince, xxiii, p. 89)

Basically women have a hard time walking away from someone they put effort into fixing and if he shows any sign false or other wise of being willing to change she will go back. It is only when she realizes he will never change that she can truly move on. Howver at that point she is some what conditioned to find and be attracted to jerks and without an epiphany she can not accept the nice guy she knows she should be attracted to because she is not attracted to nice.

Stupid people who get themselves into obviously dumb situations or complain about how things work when they didn't use common sense

Eventually one grows feelings and that is the begining of the end

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If they are not in your city, they really have no need to message you.
If they give you an email or number after the second message they are worried about being banned before setting the hook.
If they are obviously using an online translator.
If they ask for money , period.
If they refuse to meet but start calling you pet names.

100's of others, only a moron could be caught in this stuff. My 8 year old daughter could tell me there is something wrong with these messages.

They are very obviously scams, how could he lose 10 of thousands of dollars without investigating, meeting, catching the grammer, the errors, the refusals to meet, the "but i am in nigeria right now on missionary work. "to be blinded by love is to be blind sided by life" "believe nothing you can not verify for yourself" Even if they are not scammers people in general are out for themselves, its a primordial survival instinct and so you should always error on the side of caution till the other party has proven no need for it.

They prey on helpless people because helpless people are to anxious to believe and the hook sets deeper.

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Because men either because of friends they have or how they themselves are/were no what the majority of men will do to their daughter and so feel an urge to prevent that. Now if you are not talking about "protecting them from men", it is also partial probably because women are perceived as more fragile and unlike a son whom you think learns from getting into trouble, getting hurt so on a father often wrongly assumes a female does not learn the same way.

Your profile needs to be eye catching an informative, simple and lacking when competing with thousands of men for womens attention does not do it.

I went through all 4300 profiles, messages 750ish. and a percentage were nigerian bots, many viewed my profile and did no more, some replied. IT is partially a numbers game, partially a bling game. My profile bar far is lacking bling.

Also depends a lot on what you write to her, dont make it a generic message, make it targeted based on what you read on her profile.

But in the end like most other number games you will get about a 1-5% return.

Depends on the reason you dont have money if you are a drug addict, a gambler or so on and she has tried to help you and you wont get better for her then not having money is your fault and no matter how much she cares she should go.

If you simpley are struggling and having hard times then no it is not love for her to ditch out.

Every woman should be made that she is being made love to, so Probably. But most men probably would not feel guilt unless they took advantage of her.
She should however make the man work a little harder than an hour or to before she gives him such things.

If you would do anything for a stranger shouldn't you do more for your wife, rekindle or quit. don't do something that will irrevocable destroy it.

Unlike men who want a virgin so they can pretend they are the best lover in the world, most women seek a man with some experience so it is pleasurable and not awkward. So for the most part unless it is a religious reason or a worry of STD's most women would probably choose a non virgin.

Just do not advertise you are and get a book that explains how to please a woman and all should be fine.

Single dad looking for attractive, caucasian women, 21-43, for friendship, romance, fun, dating and so on, near Peoria, AZ.