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Thu 09/11/08 01:12 PM
So here I sit at work. I am a personal banker for a small community bank. Sales used to come so easy for me but now with the fall of the market not so much. It doesn't help that I am not meeting my goals which I used to do quite regularly frustrated but now we are having to fill out all kinds of checklists and make calls like fricken telemarketers! Grrrr! explode So frustrating, there needs to be more understanding for where the economy is. Don't you think?

Anyway, just thought I would vent... tears

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Wed 09/10/08 06:52 PM

I think that if a person lies about themselves in person they are going to lie just as much in a profile and vice versa.. a liar is a liar. JMO.


Amen to that!! Once a liar ALWAYS a liar!!

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Wed 09/10/08 06:36 PM

I know right?

My ex told me a few weeks ago he was dating someone, which I have no issue with, as I trust him to make wise decisions when it comes to the involvement of our daughter.

She came home tonight and cried when I was putting her to sleep that daddy spends all of his time talking to "Miss Becky" and not to her.

Do I tell him, and start an arguement...Trust me it will. Or do I wait for him to screw it up with her and talk to him about it then?


Yeah I am definitely having that conversation with him. Anything that affects your daughter and her emotional state would be of the utmost importance too me. Sigh~ men....another round??drinker

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Wed 09/10/08 06:10 PM


Ok. So I've been talking to this guy for the last 4 days or so. I met him on this website. We had so much in common, talked for hours on the phone, and he had even said he wanted to come visit me from WA. I live in FL. Everything is going good. We even talked about if it would be ok for the both of us to do a long distance dating relationship for now and see how things go. Then today, I get an email, not a phone call, but an email telling me that he has too much going on in his personal life right now, and has no time for me, and that he would love to pursue more, but can't. UM OK......You didn't have all this stuff going on in your life 4 days ago? I felt totally blown off. I know not all guys are like this, but enough with the head games already. I guess I just attract the jerks.


Welcome to the club darlin' we have martinis on Thursdays....drinks


I say again you are my favorite Lily...totally cracking up over here! hahahah!

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Wed 09/10/08 06:07 PM
Don't you just love being called a "skank?" I absolutely love it when that one comes my way! lol! I honestly would have had a hard time keeping my mouth shut. Putting dudes in their place is kind of a hobby for me...hee hee. ;)

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Wed 09/10/08 06:03 PM
hahahaha! Tell him hi for me!! He is number one for sure! :)

As for the dude you are talking about he doesn't sound like he is worth wiping the sh*t from your a** with so don't sweat it. It is afterall the internet, can't really get to attached to that right? Don't worry I'm sure Prince Charming will show himself soon....or am I? Only cuz I am not sure he is in existance though hun... Chin up!

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Wed 09/10/08 06:01 PM

i'll take internet dating for 500$ alex bigsmile


ROTFLMAO!! That's great!

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Wed 09/10/08 05:59 PM
So was his name Ryan? lol!

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Wed 09/10/08 05:55 PM

Honestly Justuw8- what he meant to say was... Your beauty transgresses time and space and although you have a few more years of experience than I do, I would be honored to have some of your time.

that's what he meant to say... ((shhhhh guys don't know how to talk pretty, and with the blood flow fighting for direction, sometimes they can't put words together))


hahahah! Yeah I have heard 30 is a tough one to turn. So far so good. Its been my personal experience that dating younger is a mistake...sorry babies just truth. My ex was 25 and I thought he was everything but he turned into everything I didn't need. lol...who knows anymore right?

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Wed 09/10/08 05:33 PM
Absolutely hilarious! Okay guess its not so bad... Lily? You bought him a shot?? Where's mine????

Sounds like there are some decent men out there afterall eh? Or maybe...uhmmm yeah let's just be optomistic shall we???

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Wed 09/10/08 05:12 PM
Edited by Justuw8nsee on Wed 09/10/08 05:13 PM
OMG Lily! I think I love you...hahahahahaha!

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Wed 09/10/08 05:10 PM
Just had a guy send me an email asking if I minded younger men he is 25 and I just turned fricken 30 on Labor Day!! Is this what life is like in my 30's?!! Grrrrr.... not a good start!

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Wed 09/10/08 05:01 PM
HAHAHAHA! LMFAO! What a pathetic fool! That is hilarious! I hope you didn't bother replying to that FREAK!!

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Wed 09/10/08 02:24 PM
lol Floh...that's funny...

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Wed 09/10/08 02:20 PM
Okay so I am a bit long winded! lmao! But you obviously have time on your hands right? Your surfing the internet!! Hello?!

Thank you and hello to everyone!! I will keep it short from now on! hahaha!

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Wed 09/10/08 02:15 PM
I will so hit a guy up if I like him! hahaha! WTH not? Just sayin hi right?

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Wed 09/10/08 02:12 PM
Hey all. I am new here...go figure. Uhmmm well something about posting a blog or whatever to a bunch of complete strangers sounded somewhat intriguing to me so a little about me and why I'm here.

I am a single mom to one almost 6 year old boy. Yes, he is adorable and it so totally my whole world but as we all know its nice to have that certain someone beside us in life. So began my search for Mr. Right. I met this guy, 25, in the army (EOD), an adorable 3 year old daughter, raised by his mother, very good looking and appeared to have everything going for him. He came over met my family, ate with us, helped my parents around the house, got cozy with my son, wrote me love letters stating how much in love with me he was and how he wanted to get married and have children together etc. Well anyway, right after some schooling in the army and enjoying a really nice birthday from me he turned and flipped a switch right before my birthday hmmm. Told me he suffers from PTSS from being in Iraq, that he can't handle being a relationship, and yeah that he doesn't love me anymore. :( Crazy, he was everything I have ever wanted in a guy.

This was kinda round two as far as heartbreaks go so I am really just looking to have friends and date as I am no longer interested in investing my whole self into someone who could care less about it. I can honestly say I am one of the nicest people alive and breathing in this world but am no longer interested in taking risks where my heart is on the line and my son is compromised. Messed up right? Oh well I will get over it! I have a great sense of humor so hopefully you aren't tearing up too much at reading this sappy little whatever it is if you are DRY UP, no worries I'm good! lol! Looking forward to meeting you all!

Heather

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