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ilovegeeks469 Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 5	Sun 08/18/13 05:13 PM Topic: sex
Can bad sex make or break a relationship? Or is there room for improvement? Sex is a skill; it can be taught. If that's the relationship's only flaw, I certainly wouldn't call it quits just because of that. Then again, bad sex could be a symptom of a larger problem. It could be a lack of trust or communication, for instance. Those are larger issues that need tackled before any real intimacy can be achieved.

ilovegeeks469 Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 5	Sun 08/18/13 04:48 PM Topic: Nice guys.
We accept the love we think we deserve. If you're unhappy with the way someone is treating you, ask yourself WHY am I LETTING them treat me this way?

ilovegeeks469 Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 5	Sun 08/18/13 05:13 AM Topic: Curious
If it were a perfect match you wouldn't have to change anything to make it work. It would just work on it's own with no help at all. There's no such thing as perfection. Everyone has their flaws as well as their good qualities. It's being able to accept each other for the flaws as well as the good qualities, & perhaps changing some behavior or thinking that could become problematic, along with your attraction towards one another that all goes into a successful relationship. No one should have to change who they are happy being just to be with someone else. No one should have to "make" a relationship work. A relationship should be able to function on it's own, along with open communication. Remember this. As long as your hearts remain strong, you will remain together. The moment that you allow your light to fade, so will your attraction. RIGHT on. Real love is unconditional. They love you for who you are, just as you are. No change needed.

ilovegeeks469 Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 5	Sun 08/18/13 04:39 AM Topic: What turns u off?
Clinginess. I want a man who's willing to stand by my side, but is also capable of standing on his own two feet.

ilovegeeks469 Joined Mon 07/08/13 Posts: 5	Sun 08/18/13 04:33 AM Topic: not ready
I feel the same way. There are plenty of men in my area that want to take me out, but as I'm not really interested in them, why waste my time and theirs by letting them think there's something there when I already know there's not. Relationships aren't something you can negotiate; you either have those types of feelings for someone, or you don't. I don't want to be with somebody just to SAY that I have someone. I want THE one, not just ANY one.