Yeah. We're all one dimensional. No range of feeling is permitted. Um hm, yeah. Can't put people into neat little boxes to suit your needs. We're human. We feel. Sorry some of us dont fit the stereo type of who you think we are or ought to be. Some of us prefer to work on being real, all dimensional, all the layers, every facet. Work on being "known"....good and bad.

Some of us want friends and partners who truly know us for who we are and accept us just as we are; imperfections and all. There is no agenda here at present, just personal growth. Tired of being Miss Nice all the time to bullies like you two.

Don't want to feel? Go ahead, there are plenty of other vices to numb out on or escape with besides relationships....like alcohol drugs, gambling, over-exercising, over-spending, you name it.

Have fun.

I don't have a partner right now, but probably worse than a soup kitchen, I might meet her on a website ;)

I am glad I started this thread. Weed out some people.

When one ASSUMES something, they only make an A$$ out of....

Pathetic is in assuming you know everything there is to know about someone or a situation based solely on forum posts.

Obviously, your insults and attacks on others stem from something hitting a personal chord in you.

Dependency issues much, my dear?

Poverty and personal irresponsibility is a b!tch, isn't it.

Opportunism is not attractive in a male; even LESS so in a female. You've outed yourself pretty well.

cheers and good night. Sleep tight. Don't let those nasty bedbugs bite.

Pathetic is some harsh wording. I don't consider myself a rescuer at all, but I certainly enjoy helping my partner achieve all she can.

Oh, is that how it works? They ask us out and we're just supposed to say yes no matter what?

Naw, you're actually right on except historically. The idea and source are correct, only interpretation changed it. I think Freud is a BSer with big problems. I prefer Jung and Adler for my own understanding of such things. They seemed to make it fit my little bitty mind better!

Really, when's the last time you went to a "soup kitchen" lookin' for someone? I betcha could pick and choose just about anyone.

Do you want someone without income? Hustle? Job? Future? Financial Goals if not Freedom?

Down on their luck? Fine. Just down? 'fraid not.

Wasn't Freud, but ... commonly accepted as such.

And apparently, she's trying to control the way you look or feel. I'm all for fitness and gyms, but on my terms - no one else's.

She sounds a little "needy" if you ask me....

You've got to be kidding. Do you think this might be your own fault? I mean you overlooked perfectly good men, so that these assholes could have fun with you?

Not to say I've never done anything wrong. But you beat me.

No need to. The self awareness is there and doing the work on recovering.

I choose to think your answer was helpful, rather than spiteful....but then, you might have emailed me privately instead of trying to publicly humiliate me like you did.

Shaming behaviors are what caused my problems in the first place.

Thanks a lot, dear.

We've got a REAL winner here.

You've got to be kidding. Do you think this might be your own fault?

No need to. The self awareness is there and doing the work on recovering.

I choose to think your answer was helpful, rather than spiteful....but then, you might have emailed me privately instead of trying to publicly humiliate me like you did.

Shaming behaviors are what caused my problems in the first place.

Thanks a lot, dear.