well, I am outta here for tonight.
Take care all.

I must dissagree.

You see, we associate love with feeling.
And while granted, feelings play a major role when it comes to love with a significant other, our feelings are not always accurate. Feelings are only emotional responses to our circumstances the way we precieve them.
Further, reacting to our emotions -positive or negitive is not always a good thing. It is not always smart to do what FEELS right.
Maybe, after being up till 2am, I dont FEEL like going to work tomorrow...good idea or no?
Perhaps poor illustration, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say.
Love is an act...a choice...and somtimes inspite of our feelings/emotions.

Correction, it can be demonstrated....verb remember.

What on earth would make you say such a thing?

You're not alone in that. How many times have we all heard that from somone freshly out of a nasty break-up or divorce?
Love is a choice. But sometimes a fresh wound disables our willingness. Been there!
And yes, then a person comes into the picture, captures the heart, and the willingness to put yourself out there and love another returns.

Hey, sorry, don't mean to spoil the mood here.
That original line about love being an illusion, just gets me a little flaired up.
I've seen too much evidence to the contrary.


Anyway, on with the conversation.

Shallow!
for one, I don't drink.
Two, If I meant sex, I would have said it.
Sex can be an act of love.
But so can a person helping another who has nothing. Feeding someone who's hungry, and so on.
ACTS of love.

Just my experience

I have not found it. It has not found me.
I have done it.
I have seen others do it.
Others have done it to me.
Love is an illusion?
Love without action is an illusion.

Dead on!!!!!
And as it is said, actions speak louder...a verb can hardly be an illusion!

speak for yourself!
Love is no illusion...if you're creating an illusion of love...not really love now is it?

If the dude was not mentaly present enough to generate the question "How old are YOU?"
And if he did not have contol over his emotions because he had to work for the answer...Jokes on him...and it's friggin gut busting!
LMAO

It has been easy finding people to chat with, and even a few good coffee dates that I don't regret.

It is not finding that one amazing connection.

I'ts all good. I am patient.

well, it's been fun!
it's nearly 3am here, I am off to bed.
Chat with you all later.

night

and imported---provided they aren't drinking their profets...they would not have the mental capacity to get it accross the border!

I don't know, I have an issue with run-on sentences...this maybe the answere I have been searching for!!!
hmmm, people may get the wrong idea though.

Amazing, He goes from having a threesome, to emotional therapy, to monogomy in one sentance...What brand of Vodka is that????

Okay, I'm not the only one that caught that!
LMAO

no, no wooden shoes! LOL
And I cannot speak for all men,

But yes I enjoy being on the recieving end of the deal!