WAIT, you could be the person I am looking for. I know, I have not met you yet, so Hi, I am BJ! I am glad you stopped by! Something about my pic made you click, perhaps something here inside will prompt a message?!? I am one of those quirky creative right-brained sort of guys that believes in chivlery! I am niether complete introvert nor complete extrovert. I am a grade A self-proclaimed dork, and not ashamed of it!! I am absolutely a dreamer and a hopless romantic! But dreams and ambitions are nothing without diligent follow-through! I take care of business! I do however, beleive in lazy days too. I am a big Superman nerd. I enjoy the outdoors, I also enjoy the indoors! And better yet, I believe in opening doors; ...after you! I can be over-anylitical, but not over critical. I act a little ADD, but I know how to listen and engage. My friends tend to open up to me with very deep parts of them. I guess I enjoy being a sounding board for someone in need of one. I believe in working through things...when things get hard. Happiness is a fleeting emotion. A great relationship is not fate, it is the result of kindness, communication, caring, and sometimes hard work and sacrifice. I should add that as I browse profiles, I'm not looking at your body. I'm not checking out your s! I am looking at your eyes...can I get lost in them? If so a message will likely follow when I find my way back to earth!Check your inbox! No, really, I have had my day of superficial relationships. I want deapth! I want connection. I a woman that wants to love, and wants to be loved. Music is big to me, I play piano, and have a bit of my own material. I enjoy anything that demands a mean air guitar! I enjoy attempting to dance. Unfrotunatley, I suffer from OCS..that's Overly Caucasian Syndrom! But I try. I never grow weary of looking west each day, and being awed by those great rocky mountains thrusting into the sky. Colorado will always be home no matter where I go, and I am a proud Colorado native. I am an artist. I enjoy doing portraits and many other pieces, and one day hope to use my talent as my primary source of income. I believe in an amazing God and Jesus is and always will be an intimate part of my life. I have three dughters that mean the world to me. All three have amazing hearts and bright futures. And all three can make me smile when nothing else can. I believe in being positive...all the time! I am on the look out for a woman that believes in such as well. Don't get me wrong, I have my days. But every day is an opportunity...if I choose to see it that way. I believe that dating at my age means accepting more than just the woman in front of me. We all have a past. I will never judge based on a previous relationship, and I will accept you and anything, or anyone that has become part of the package deal. In the interest of honesty, let me say right now that I do not currently have a vehicle. That will be remedied soon. But I feel it is important to be honest and put all the cards on the table from the very start. I am looking for a woman to share the deepest parts of me with. Life is journey. And what matters most is the people we share that journey with. Are you deep? Are you pionate? Can you talk about anything or nothing for hours? Is silence without tension just as sweet? Can we connect; can we finish each other's sentenses? Does my day become complete after only having gotten lost in your eyes? Do you laugh at my jokes? (if not, it's okay, I will laugh at me...I mean my jokes!) Is a quiet night laying on the gr gazing at the stars more appealing than going to a club or bar? If any of this captures a bit of who you are, then I would love to hear from you. Now I understand this is a bit of a novel. That's 100% intentional. I have shared a bit of me, and a bit of the great companion my heart sees and hopes for. . If you have read this much, perhaps it's worth dropping a message too. I dare ya! No, I douple dog dare ya! No I don't dare you to find a double dog..unless that means it has double mustard on it too. If you got that...say hi!