It is very much part of your charm. Don't change for anything. I think it is endearing that you mention your child. I am not a dude but your child is a huge part of your life and it shows as with me and my daughters. If anything life changing happens in your life as did in mine (house burnt down April 25th and husband passed away July 26th) see who is your biggest support system then. That child will always be there.

next ima throw a chair!!!

heheheeh

I thought it was single men who don't want to share their toys with a 7 year old?

I'm so off base today... I'm sick that's why I'm a minute behind everyone else today.. You know I'm sick, my daughter is sick and I'm taking care of both of us while her father will go out to his band practice tonight...

Both of my daughters have very long black hair. When my daughter was about 15 she cut off 12 inches and donated it. It has grown back now. You are a light. Stay sweet even if your sarcasm peeks out every now and then.

what are we fighting about today??? I just woke up...

Score sounds like a plan to me

i see you

you can run but you can't hide

Sangria margarita swirls during lunch are good for being productive during the afternoon at work.

amagurl...you seem to be such a sweet and sincere person. Don't change who you are for anybody. The right person is just around the corner. You seem to be such a light that people are drawn to you. Stay sweet and don't cut you hair! From Muncie, IN

wait i'm getting confused...are we talking about the single guys with no kids not dating moms, or are we talking about the single guys who leave their kids high and dry and won't date single moms?

It's less self righteous than it is pure logic. I am a computer science major. I think about all the bugs in the logic of the code and try to pinpoint them so you know where the program went wrong.

Sounds good to me lol make sure you make a duplicate of that video

After what you told me in email, I can believe it.


7 times!?!

o0o can we use a fire hose???

returning the love

I don't have kids. I made a deliberate and conscious decision, at age 21, that I would never be a parent. Everyone I have been involved with since that time is aware of this decision, and the vast majority of them have tried to get me to change my mind. That's one of the many reasons I am no longer with those people.

But my reality is that I know what's best for me. Being a parent would not be a good thing for anyone involved, regardless of how many people commit themselves to my ultimate "domestication." It's not going to happen.

This does not mean that I have anything at all against mothers, single or otherwise. Or fathers, either. I have friends who are parents. I like most of their kids.

But it's not the lifestyle for me.

Let's not make a bigger deal out of this than it really is. It's a choice, a preference, a decision. That's all.

And I'm not one of those guys who says "I just don't want to have to take care of another man's kids." It isn't even that -- I don't want to take care of anybody's kids, not even my own, were there hypothetically any in existence. And that's why there aren't any.

I just don't want that element in my life.

And I know this position limits the number of people I could get involved with -- but the people on the other side of that boundary are people I would never be happy with, anyway.

It has nothing to do with you, your effectiveness as a parent, your self-worth, your needs, your attitudes, your beliefs....it has to do with me knowing who I am and what works for me. And sometimes that doesn't always mesh well with other people's belief systems. And I'm OK with that.